Real "Metro" shelving or one of the many copycats? I'll second turbowoodworker's suggestion to use a mallet. Another possibility is that you're unknowingly mixing Metro and other copycat brands of uprights. Metro and the copies look alike and I'm not sure if the Metro uprights are branded (Metro shelves certainly are). Metro brand shelving has one piece uprights whereas some of the copies use multi-piece uprights that screw together. I'd check them with a ruler to find out if the uprights are the same.