I've not been posting for a few reasons. One is that I've been super busy with work. I have a job for a week and when I get back it's my week with the kids and the the next week I'm away again. I'm not complaining - work is good and it's been fun but there's been no time for projects. When I'm home I'm scrambling to catch up, always behind.
The person I
was dating got me back into bicycling and that's been a reprieve despite the relationship not working out. I'm grateful for that and not sad about the breakup. Riding has been a way to stay in shape, clear my head and get out and meet people. I'm grateful for that.
After riding about a dozen different mountain bikes I sort of gave up. This Specialized Evo was pretty cheap and had electronic shifting and 29" wheels - both things I was pretty sure I didn't want. But also things I wasn't familiar with so I decided that rather than waste the summer looking for a "perfect" bike I'd get something cheaper so I could get Lucas a new bike as he outgrew his bike as well.
I managed to carve out 4 days between jobs and took the bike to Hood River, Bend, McKenzie River and Black Rock and finally my fitness is starting to build. I've done a few dates to ride bikes and until just recently was pretty much getting my *** kicked every time. At least on the climbs. This week marks the first time I managed to not be the person dying on the climbs.
I found a second Ibis Mojo for Lucas and to my surprise he absolutely loves his new bike. Taking my brothers advice I've tried to make all our outings fun without any of the "work" or suffering that is a normal part of a cross country ride. Last week we went to Timberline and did the lifts and the kids had a great time.
Lucas kept crashing and Nadia spent the whole time going, "Wheeeee!" and they were exhausted at the end. My strategy for the summer has been letting them "earn" screen time by getting out of the house. It feels like such a bad bargain but the results have been pretty positive. They love their new bikes and they're becoming more adventurous and independent and will leave the house for "adventures" of several hours, going into town, getting food, going to the park and so I take that as a win.
I mentioned that the Evo is a 29'er and has the Sram AXS electronic shifting. The electronic shifting I love, the 29's I'm less sure of. I picked up a second set of wheels in 27.5+ and the bike feels much more nimble and quick. I certainly get the way the 29's roll over everything but they feel slow. I'm going to keep swapping them to get to know them. I'm not interested in a mullet setup but who knows, I may try it.
The other reason I've not been posting is that Lara, my sister, is not doing well.
If you recall a few years ago when we took our Saku-Moto trip she got pretty lost. She has been complaining of losing her memory and forgetting things for a while but my brother and I sort of discounted it - we all do that. But recently she was diagnosed with Early Onset Dementia and it seems to be rather aggressive to the point that I'm flying to FL to bring her home to live with my Mom because it's become too difficult for her to live on her own.
I'm not sure how to even process this. It's unfair and it's heart breaking yet Lara seems to have a positive outlook. Mostly I'm just extremely sad and I don't know quite what to do about it.
I'm trying to appreciate what I have - my friends and my health. And I'm riding. A lot.
Gregor