OP
You know, the thing that just occurred to me is that I can position the car either way, depending on what I'm doing. The cool thing about the way I'm installing this thing is that it's just a 48"x48" platform that rises straight up. It will work whether I pull the car in nose-first or tail-first.Jack I think this is the optimal position because of the cantilever action especially if you remove front end components. if you remove the engine it move closer to center line
He's been right pretty much my whole life.The reason that dad is correct is that both lift legs (the X) carry weight. In your prefered version the CG is to the left of the X therfore two legs on the left of the X are in compression and the legs on the right are in tension.
Can you imagine being the son of an engineer with a 50-year career and only having a philosophy degree (and a lot of professional experience making up, uh... well, 'exciting stories') to draw on when you want to argue with him?
(You know how four-year-olds think their father is superhuman? I still feel that way about my 80-year-old father. He's got a clarity to his thinking that I lack.)

