Mitsubishi 9800 (no eraser) 9850 (eraser) are the gold standard (to me) today.
Tombow 8900 are nice but for near the price of the Mitsubishi (my opinion) buy the Mitsubishi. Haven't tried Golden Bears. That's pretty much the top tier 2B general writing pencils available now.
The USA Gold pencils you can get from Walmart are really not bad. They are not as nice as the Mitsubishi but you can get them in greater quantity for less money and the price difference is enough to make them a better value for general writing or workshop/jobsite use.
Back in the day, the USA Ticonderogas were very nice. Now, not as much.
Certainly not bad pencils, but not like they used to be. Orioles and Mirado Black Warriors were up there too. Today's black warriors again nice, not like they used to be. None of them were 'special' they were just made well and didn't break leads often. I had and have plenty of Staedtlers, one Blackwing (overrated IMO), older Generals (not as nice as current Mitsubishi) and several other misc ones around. The ones that you get in the plastic tube either branded CH Hanson (linked above with the drill attachment sharpener, hella fun) or the HD orange ones (same pencils, painted instead of natural/clear coat, with different sharpener) are pretty decent too.
I have an Xacto electric sharpener, nothing special, but it does a great job. I have several nonstandard size pencils lying around and I would like to get the nicer Xacto with the size ring. The brass bullet is indeed the best hand sharpener but I have probably 10 different kinds around my shop both for different sizes and because they often go missing. Friend of mine hates the fact I have a sharpener for lumber crayons and carpenter (rectangular) pencils too.
All this said, I prefer a good mechanical pencil anyway. Staedtler and Pentel fit best in my hand. Hobby Lobby sells a copy of common Pentel model that feels just as good and cheap enough to use in rough and dirty places.
If you can get used to the 2mm lead holder style, that's probably 'the best' for my hands but it's hard for me to get used to them. The Fastcap 'fat boy' is pretty nice.
quite a lot of good stuff at tokyopenshop.com also.