You apparently have more hands-on experience than anyone else on this forum.
I have stated nothing of the sort, nor would I ever exploit my lack of education or experience for public sympathy.
Experience is worthless currency on the internet, where everything in print "must be true." In real life, there is constructive experience, exhibited by the repeated practice of positive behaviors and there is destructive experience, reinforced by the mindless repetition of bad habits. Readers have no way to know what is what without external/third party authorities, references, pictures, or other tangible proof.
I'll say it again, I've seen 10's of thousands of heated floors
It's hard to be credible when you say stuff like that. Fortunately, math still stands up on the internet. If you worked on a new floor
every day of a 50 year career, you'd just be getting to your then thousandth floor at your 50th anniversary.
I understand you think it's only a few cents to install this, but it takes quite a bit of labor to lay-out joints ahead and secure the foam so it doesn't move during the pour. Money that could easily be spent better elsewhere........
That's still not a good reason for not following the instructions. If a job is properly planned, it's a small incremental effort. If there's no planning ahead, then there is a huge incremental effort to work all that stuff out in the field -> which just devolves in to a bunch of whining, cussing, and chain smoking.
Fortunately the OP is planning ahead here and can avoid that grief!