You match the orifice size to your pressure washer's max pressure and GPM spec. There are charts online that show the correct orifice size based on your specs. I attached one I found to ths post. In general, most decent capability homeowner sized machines will use a size 3 orifice, more commercial higher capacity machines often use a size 4 orifice. My personal use machine is a 7HP 3,000psi 2.6GPM unit, so I use 3.0 orifice sized tips.
In terms of the spray tips themselves, I've never bought or tried the cheap no-name 5-6pc tip sets on amazon for $6 before, so I don't know how good they are. I try to stick with well-known established brands whenever I can. In general, I don't use the standard tips for much other than spraying cleaner/soap, for rinsing something like a vehicle after washing it, or for cleaning delicate surfaces where I might be worried about paint chipping off or something similar. I use a surface cleaner attachment instead for cleaning concrete driveways, brick walkways, etc. Much faster and more consistent results compared to doing the job with a spray tip. My clothing also stays a lot dryer and cleaner while working, because there is almost no deflected water spray or dirt hitting my legs like there often is when using a standard spray nozzle tip. You size a surface cleaner to your pressure washer's specs just like you do for a spray tip. For jobs like spraying dirt or grime off of the vertical edge of concrete steps, or for getting into corners and tight areas, I usually use a turbo nozzle. Again, for most of the jobs the average person will be using a pressure washer for a turbo nozzle works noticeably better and is faster than a standard spray tip.
I usually buy Simpson brand when it comes to pressure washer accessories, tips, wand extensions, etc. Their accessories are usually noticeably better quality than the cheaper no-name stuff you see everywhere but they don't usually cost much more.
The surface cleaner I use-
The turbo nozzle I have (3.0 orifice size)-
The tips I use (3.0 orifice size)-
The wand extension I have (so my lower back doesn't wear out from bending over constantly)-