You've received a lot of varying information for a 1' to 4' high retaining block wall. Just some things to clarify:
- these are not CMUs ("cinder" blocks some say) that you build a basement with (well technically they are CMU, but refer to them as "retaining wall blocks." They are specifically designed to hold back the earth in and of themselves).
- no mortar or concrete fill/rebar (that is for CMU)
- no concrete footings (that is for high walls, unstable soil and large forces)
- no leanback (some blocks are layed with offsets so they "look" leaning)
- no "landscape" or "woven" fabric (use non-woven needlepunched geotextile)
- no pilasters (that is for long or high walls, unstable soil and large forces)
- no water should wash over the top, unless you are building a waterfall (if you have that much sheetflow, it should be dealt with in swales prior to hitting the wall)
- no worries about it failing (if installed correctly, it should last equal or better than a poured concrete or reinforced CMU wall)
- no cantilevered "fence" sticking up like the neighbor across the street (if you have a sloping grade, stepping the wall vertically to follow it is best. They are designed to hold grade back, if not they will tip over easily)
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Start with picking a block. For a low wall the aesthetic is where to start. Smooth, chiseled, chamfered, flush, setback, color, stone-look, lots of choices. You probably want a 6" to 8" high block. 12" high is too big. These will be open cell to fill with gravel. Anything smaller is for a "garden wall" which will be solid and glued together.
The block you choose determines everything about how the wall will be constructed. You will refer to the manufacturer installation details for that specific block on how to do it:
- Some blocks are flat faced and are held together by pins
- Some have overlapping lips which offset the faces and do not require pins
- The maximum unsupported height will vary from 2.5' to 4'. After that it can require geogrid.
- Some will have matching step options
- Some have "complimentary" caps, others use "compatible" ones
- Some will say drainage is required above 3' high, good practice is put it behind any wall
I imagine you will start by going to the big box store. That's fine, and you can also go to some landscape supply shops as well. Big boxes may source blocks from local plants and are perfectly adequate for this. Landscapers will contract with the big boys like Unilock or Belgard.
Before then, here's a good manufacturer website which describes the engineering and shows construction details of typical walls. There's lots of other information available there as well.
wall engineering
wall details