I use a sidearm and it works very well. I plumbed it into the bottom drain valve and back into the top pressure relief valve. It is a rather slow recovery but we can take 5 showers and not run out of hot water. I will post pictures later.
Lots of misleading info in here or maybe folks that don’t understand wood boilers. Yes following codes is important but I know dozens of people around me with wood boilers and no one has anything in them other than soft water and a corrosion resistant something or other. The house pressure will easily overcome any leaks and your stove will overfill before it leaks into the water heater. My sidearm is one solid pipe from bottom to top so the 316SS pipe would have to rot out before a leak could happen. Not likely.
Antifreeze is a non issue unless you intend to let the fire go out. That totally defeats the purpose of a wood boiler. Light it once and keep it going until spring when you shut it off until next fall. They do not do well heating and cooling often. More corrosion and excessive wood consumption will be the result of that.
If you have made the commitment to having a wood boiler you must realize it’s like being married to something. You have to check it and make sure it’s happy and had enough wood. I check mine twice a day weather it needs wood or not. When it’s -20f and windy I check it every 8hrs min.
@Rytis - what do you have for an outdoor boiler ? Make model etc. Also, where are you located ? What other heat loads do you have on the stove ? Are you comfortable doing the work yourself ?