Thankyou for the info and i understand all the concepts. I was only referencing temps to answer your first question. the heater was sized by the company who designed the system and appears to be able to throttle down enough to not over heat as the delta closes during a cycle. The system also has a slab sensor and is set to maintain a minimum slab temp. As you stated i just need to play with the system to see what it likes best. Im not looking for debates about why a boiler is or isn't better. I asked if anyone had any first hand experience with a similar setup and water heater settings. For a full house setup sutch as yours I'm sure a constant flow system with a high efficiency condensing boiler would probably be the best solution. Unfortunately the cost of those just were not in my budget. As i stated my system is performing very well as installed. It has more than enough capacity to keep up on it coldest days and so far does not seem to struggle on the lower demand days. My building is 2400sqf but also has 15ft ceilings so its a fairly large space to keep at temp
The ceiling height should not matter -- in fact that's one of the benefits of radiant. With the proper slab temp you don't end up with superheated ceiling and stack effect losses. The slab releases heat and the air cools as you go up .... with radiant the air temp should be lower at the ceiling .... that's why you don't use fans with proper radiant setups.
I was trying to answer your original question -- water temps.
A slab is nothing more than a big radiator. They told you 120 ... because at a constant 120 with the size input you have it's impossible for it not to heat the space. They want the space to heat .... Since this is a new setup == I'm assuming it's reasonably tight and insulated.
The slab sensor is indeed the better way to go as it will cut the system off sooner than a room sensor .. this will help with possible over shooting.
When you do a load it's typically based on a max slab output of 85 degrees -- you can go higher as it's concrete. But that's typically the upper limit as far as comfort.
So what do you have the slab sensor set to ?.... if you have the sensor in the middle of the tubing and it's at 80. Pumping 120 degree water will heat the slab faster than 110 degree water and trip the sensor. It now becomes a factor of how thick the slab and how far apart the tubing -- the slab will continue to release heat. 8" separation will heat faster vs 12"
Ideally you still want the same thing as anyone else --- long run times with the lowest temp water.
With the type system you have my guess is you will want to run colder water dropping it down until the system falls behind ... note the temp and wind conditions. This will show you the low set point at a given outdoor temp. You will quickly discover what temp water is required at various outside temps.
Then it's a simple understanding --- it's been 40 degrees for three weeks .. But, I see it's going to drop into the teens in a few days .... you raise the water temp to one of the historical numbers you have for that outside temp.
The overall savings may or may not be great -- that will depend on the building insulation. Lower water temps always save .... no one can tell you how much.