usually CGA-*** connectors does not require any o-rings ... at least the ones in the USA. Just make sure the mating surfaces are clean and does not have any debris. For oxygen make sure NO Oil..
The different CGA-*** connectors are used for different gases, there is a chart some where. yours says CGA-320.
As far as gauges... get one for your gas.
you are right.... hmmm then I am wondering what those soda machine CO2 uses now... oh well will find out .I think it is a CGA 520. A CGA 320 is for CO2 and uses a gasket.
Jack