...BTW....how many of you have shown your spouse what to do in case of a breakdown?... ....The universal sign in the US that you have car trouble is to raise the hood...
I specifically instruct my spouse to NOT open the hood if she breaks down on the side of the road. Reason being is I don't want her advertising that she's stranded and left vulnerable. The right creep would be less likely to act if it looks like she's just pulled over to talk on her cell and can drive away at any time. If she's alone I tell her to pull over with the blinker on, keep the car running and lights on if she can then call me. If someone does pull over to offer assistance, stay in the car, doors locked, window down only a few inches, then call someone and keep them on the phone while you talk with the stranger. It may sound paranoid, but horrific events
do sometimes begin just like this.
On the flip-side, I've stopped to offer assistance to stranded vehicles. To ease the tensions of a stranded woman by herself I pull over in front of her car instead of behind, walk to her door but stop at a fair distance and not be insulted if she only opens her window a crack. I'll offer whatever and if she tells me she doesn't need my help I won't push and I'll accept her answer and be on my way.
That all said, I think putting reflectors out could be both good and bad depending on the situation.
LC.