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Sharing garage space, a big rant

Welshie

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I'll start with saying I am very grateful to be blessed with parents that have anough land and facilities to partake in my hobby, especially as I do not have those facilities yet. But before my rant I will add a big:

AAAAAAAARGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :tantrum2:

Those who read my introduction thread know I have "The Olympic" garage which is basically a 30ft long polytunnel with a solid white covering (to prevent UV) to restore my MGB GT V8. This is one of a few storage facilities on my parents smallholding, the main one being a 3 bay garage with workbench, inspection pit etc and another old barn thats used for storage of 2 cars and some junk.

I live 100 miles away, so get one weekend a month usually to work on my car so this Easter I went home with a heavy dent in my credit card and anticipation to fitting the various engine parts I'd ordered. Work didn't go as well as I'd hoped due to a few issues but that wasn't the main problem.

Unfortunately all three of my brothers have hobbies that require use of spaces in the place, and my dad is a hoarder so despite the fact that we have now bought 2 more truck boxes (the 30ft boxes used on trucks) we still are crammed for space. This wouldn't be a problem apart from my immature spoiled brat of an older brother who dominates the space like its his own and throws a temper tantrum if things don't go as he wants, which my dad lets him get away with.

Case in point? The Olympic has my car in the middle at the back and until recently had some race karts we were rebuilding in the front, they have now gone into their proper storage box. Dad has a habit of buying classic cars that are wrecked because they are "too good to miss" and they usually sit around for a few years until he sells them, this was the case with one car he had recently in the Olympic. Now that it was out my bratty brothers prized classic which had been over the workshop pit all winter getting a new engine could go back in there. No, he leaves it over the workshop pit because that garage is "more secure".

So after telling him on Friday that I need to do a service, MOT check and water pump change on my daily driver, he proceeds to not only leave it over the pit, but locked. So Saturday morning I'm at the garage at 10am wanting to do my car, and knowing he doesnt wake up until noon dad and I preceeded to move his car (he left the window open enough we got a rope in there to pull the lock open, no damage done at all). He arrived at about 1.30pm and before even saying hello, condascendingly stated to dad and I "Who gave you permission to move my baby?" And I relied "Dad did, we needed the workshop for the Mondeo and we only pushed yours out here"

In the next 30 mins he went in a foul maouthed bad mooded rant, blurting various swear words and then having the cheek to say to me "You need to stop going over my F***ing head"....Its DAD's workshop, and DAD helped me moved your car out of the way. If you don't like it, get a f***ing job and rent your own workshop!

He until recently lived at home, and for whatever reason mum and dad put up with all his temper tantrums because he lives nearby and helps around the placeoccasionally, the flip side is he treats the place like his own and while no one is allowed within 1000 yards of his car, he regularly moves **** around mine or forexample, was cleaning **** out of an old gas pipe RIGHT NEXT TO MY ENGINE that was in bits and I was rebuilding, then has a go at me when I ask him if he can do that somewhere else! I won't have many tools, but the ones I do have are regularly moved and even my spare parts too during one of his "tidy up" sessions, as long as his tools and his car are pristine he doesn't give a damn about what he does to others.

Finally, space. Like I say the problem is he has picked up my dads' habit of buying old cars. He's bought 4 in the last 30 months, one of which is in a neighbours garage, the other is in a box, the third is in the barn stripped (his next project) and he's just this week bought one that "was too good to miss" as his latest project needs a reshell, hence this new purchase. But now that means this bucket of **** is being put in the Olympic garage in front of my project which gives me even less space to work on things like body panels. He and dad told me their 'grand plan' to build another storage shed and turn the other polytunnel (the Titanic) into a spray booth but part of me wonders what else they'll find to buy to fill up that space too.

Like I say I'm greatly appreciative of the space and facilities I have to even do my project, but when you spent probably a 1/4 of my already limited time looking for parts or tools that people have moved from shed to shed without me knowing, it really pisses me off.

I cannot wait to have my own garage, everything will be neatly placed and the space will be MINE and mine alone!

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Rant over
 
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Do you feel better now? If yes, then good, it worked. (This is a common therapy technique, BTW.)

Now, you need to work on getting your own shop/storage space, closer to your home and not relying on your Dad's place. You will be so much happier (and you know that!):cool:
 

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Get your own space?
This whole post screams "dysfunctional family" to me.
Sorry, that's just my opinion as a non professional anything.
 
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The 500 Mile Rule - Live more than 500 miles from family, and have your own junk. Everyone gets along great.

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I couldn't get past the second paragraph, but if you are over 18, time to move on and get your own garage.

Your Dad is probably griping about all your junk you left behind.
 
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Welshie

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Do you feel better now? If yes, then good, it worked. (This is a common therapy technique, BTW.)

Yeah it did, thanks.

Holy! I'm not reading all that. Cliffs?

Plenty of them where I'm from, but i'm not THAT desperate.

Get your own space?
Sorry but this whole post screams "dysfunctional family" to me.
Sorry, that's just my opinion as a non professional anything.

Looking to, and you're probably right.

The 500 Mile Rule - Live more than 500 miles from family, and have your own junk. Everyone gets along great.

I like it, does 5000 miles count? Which is what I'll be looking at in a few yrs.

I couldn't get past the second paragraph, but if you are over 18, time to move on and get your own garage.

Your Dad is probably griping about all your junk you left behind.

Duly noted, but no he won't be...he loves having 'stuff' all around!
 

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So your getting bullied by an older brother. Is finally kicking your brothers ***, or at least trying, over this an option? Your rant sounds like you have never really stood up to him. I don't know many brother combos that wouldn't resolve this with a good wrestling match and some drinks afterwards.
 

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Lower your stress level by dumping the family and getting your own place. Might take a while, but get to work on it. I dumped my family and life became so much better. After about ten years, they one by one began looking me up. But it was on my terms. A couple of them became good friends with me and the others didn't and were not worth it.

You have one life, get rid of them. Otherwise, you are enabling them.

Now, enough family advice, go work on your car and use some tools. You'll feel better immediately.
 

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The 500 Mile Rule - Live more than 500 miles from family, and have your own junk. Everyone gets along great.

Mark

Nice philosophy. I have a sister in Georgia, one in California, and a third in Minnesota, and I'm in Washington state. If we could get the one in Minnesota to move to Maine we'd be really set :beer:
 
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What's got me thinking is when your parents pass away, what's gonna happen to the property and stuff. Because if their is so much tension now I can't imagine when the day comes and your parents will is read. Their is gonna be lots of fighting over property and cars and junk laying around. I hope your parents have a will detailing who gets what.

And I know everyone is gonna say get your own garage, but having a 3 car garage, a pit, and all the space your dad has is really nice and handy for you, so I don't blame you for using it for your projects. Too bad you four can't get along.. that *****.....
 

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Now, that was funny!!! :lol_hitti

(Welshie: Cliff's Notes, the abridged version of life!)
Welshie was too worked up to think straight. :lol:

So your getting bullied by an older brother. Is finally kicking your brothers ***, or at least trying, over this an option? Your rant sounds like you have never really stood up to him. I don't know many brother combos that wouldn't resolve this with a good wrestling match and some drinks afterwards.
There is the answer !! ^ :beer:
 
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I didn't see anyone else say it so I will--

Problem with your brother? Bang his sister!
 

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A good rant always makes me feel slightly better too. As its been posted already, I agree with getting your own space. Like my grandmother always told me, "this too, shall pass."
 
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Welshie

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That was good!
I like this guy, he can take honest opinions and has sense of humor.

Thank you :)

Lower your stress level by dumping the family and getting your own place. Might take a while, but get to work on it. I dumped my family and life became so much better. After about ten years, they one by one began looking me up. But it was on my terms. A couple of them became good friends with me and the others didn't and were not worth it.

You have one life, get rid of them. Otherwise, you are enabling them.

Now, enough family advice, go work on your car and use some tools. You'll feel better immediately.

Great advice, thank you. My car is 100 miles away so I couldn't do that, but I worked on some bits of it I have here, enough?

Nice philosophy. I have a sister in Georgia, one in California, and a third in Minnesota, and I'm in Washington state. If we could get the one in Minnesota to move to Maine we'd be really set :beer:

Small world, my wife is from Yakima and we spent Christmas 2012 in Leavenworth!

Post some pics!

Of?!

What's got me thinking is when your parents pass away, what's gonna happen to the property and stuff. Because if their is so much tension now I can't imagine when the day comes and your parents will is read. Their is gonna be lots of fighting over property and cars and junk laying around. I hope your parents have a will detailing who gets what.

And I know everyone is gonna say get your own garage, but having a 3 car garage, a pit, and all the space your dad has is really nice and handy for you, so I don't blame you for using it for your projects. Too bad you four can't get along.. that *****.....

Thankfully we aren't like that. Even the bratty brother is fairly decent some of the time, he just gets immature and petty if anyone goes near his 'stuff'

I didn't see anyone else say it so I will--

Problem with your brother? Bang his sister!

:eek:

A good rant always makes me feel slightly better too. As its been posted already, I agree with getting your own space. Like my grandmother always told me, "this too, shall pass."

It did indeed and that's great advice.
 

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Your Dad owns the place..... He helped move your brother's car out of the work area..

Work area=WORK AREA storage area=storage area...... If That is the way He thinks it should be..... That is the way it should be..... ?????
 

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I - personally - would take "baby" out behind a barn, put it on blocks, bury the wheels in the back forty and tell him to kiss my tailpipe. When he grows up he can have his wheels back or go by new ones. Then I'd find someplace else to work because I wouldn't put up with any of that **** family or no.
 

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It's hard most of the time for siblings to share a space. Often there personalities are not compatible and for some reason...they seem like there is no reason to keep those compatibility issues in check with each other, like the do in the outside world.

Bottom line you need your own space, then you can regulate how it is used.
 

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WTF? Freudian slip or did you mean to post that? Some would recommend banging his wife, I don't think the OP is from Arkansas.

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I think you need to pitch your own reality tv show and use the proceeds to get your own place. (If you actually do that, I will except a well-sorted Dolomite Sprint as my sole payment...) : )
 

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images of a fucked up looking, banjo pickin' kid sitting on an old wooden walking bridge is dancing around in my thoughts. JK the Arkansas comments got to me. ha ha ha ha
 
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Post some pics!


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