The 4X4 guys deal with this issue a lot. There Two are two issues to be aware of. Tires compress a little because they are squishy, and springs compress. The amount of compression is of course proportional to the weight so if you adjust the height when its supported by a ridged block of wood, and while its a significantly different weight like if it has the engine out, then its not goin to come out right. The weight is the easy part. Weigh all the parts that are going to be supported by the suspension, then add that much weight. (Bricks, rocks, jugs of water, whatever works). The tire is going to be a bit trickier. I'd bolt it to another vehicle if I could, and measure how far it compresses the weight the corner of the one your working on. The ratio of the weights is the ratio of the amount it compresses. If you can't bolt it up to another vehicle, you could measure a similar tire. Personally, I'd wait to get everything in before adjusting the ride height because I'm 100% sure I'd screws it up and have to redo it.
If all your doing is simulating ride hight to select tires which may well be all that you care about at this point then it's a bit easier. But I suggest being very carefully. Measure twice cut (or buy in this case) once and don't cut things too close. Because of the risk of buying the wrong tires, and presumably your going to be buying some pricey tires and maybe wherls, it might be worthwhile to find a friendly local tore store that will go the extra like for a good sale. Maybe you could talk said tire store into mounting up a set of junk tires on the wheels so you can test fit them before 100% committing. Like you buy the tired and wheels, then mount up some crappy ones from the pile they allways have, and test fit. Then if it doesn't work, you can get the right ones because you didn't mount them if not, it might even be worth finding a junk set on freecycle or Craig's list and paying for them and even paying for mounting of necessary. I just ee that if it were me, I know if screw this up and end up having a set of expensive tired that woken fit. Because that's just allways how it works out for me.