Nato,
You missed it because the thread was deleted first, but I typed a nearly two page response to the thread you made in the classifieds. It basically took this situation from the day I was injured way back, all the way to a day by day account of the last three weeks, almost down to what I ate for breakfast each day.
The bottom line here is not a debate over whether I screwed up... I openly admitted to that. It's a debate about intent; mtwaterguy claims that I intentionally lied, and I claim that I had good intentions and broke some promises. I've already stated (and apologized) repeatedly, both in public and via PM, that I did a piss poor job communicating. It was because I was in a really bad place. If you believe me, fine. If not, that's Ok too at this point, because I took care of all of my transactions, and not one person lost a single dime... in fact some people such as yourself and mtwaterguy came out a little on top.
The biggest problem in this situation is that everyone was going on assumptions, not facts. They took the small communications they recieved from me while I was dealing with my issues, and attempted to add them together into something coherent... and I wasn't even coherent in the first place, even though I was sure as hell trying to be at the time.
Regarding the last week before I finally got everything wrapped up, my only internet connection was my cellphone, and I have GJ set to my homepage on my phone's browser. It was my first week back to work, and I was immediately sent out on business. Every time I opened a browser for any reason, I was "online" at GJ. My phone does decently at browsing the forums, but when it comes to responding to posts and PM's, it's abysmal, or even impossible.
As a note, the first day I got back to a normal computer, I immediately started contacting each and every person I had transacted with. I didn't get them all done on that Friday, but I sure as heck took a good chunk out. In fact, the first of the shipments went out before you started your thread, and before anyone decided to go for my throat.
That right there should be a clear indicator that I was fixing things on principle, not just to save face here on the forum.
If I had waited until I was called out to start fixing things, then yeah, I would look like a dirtbag, regardless of my real intentions... but I have to ask, what motivation would I have to start wrapping up my transactions in the background, with no public exposure, other than just pure intent to make things right?
Before that, I was basically dead to the world besides a random PM or two. I don't have any real excuses, just apologies.
I had several new sales this last week, and they all were shipped immediately. Those feedbacks should begin trickling in here pretty soon, and then we can really start talking about what my intentions are. I've been buying and selling on the internet for a decade with a perfect record... two weeks of trouble, and I'm ready for public execution.
