Yea I'll try getting some proper staked axle nut unstake and stake tools, and try a fully charge battery. Thanks for the tips.
Trying to document my findings on 36 mm impact sockets
Home Depot - Don't sell an impact socket that large
Lowes - Don't sell an impact socket that large, but they did have a kobalt chrome socket at 36 mm that was 12 point
Ace - They don't sell any impact sockets
O Riley - They sell the Powerbuilt brand for impact sockets that large in 6 point. They also carry OEM sockets in 12 point of this size.
Advacned Auto - They carry the same power built and OEM sockets that O Riley does
Auto Zone - They have Duralast brand sockets, 36 mm impact, 6 point. It had a mucher tighter tolerance than the powerbuilt sockets. I was able to put the new nut in and wasn't able to twist it much. Power Built I could twist it a lot
Harbor Freight - I checked just for laughs and giggles. They do not sell indivdiual sockets this large. But they have them in a set that I couldn't open to test out the tolerances
Tractor Supply - only carried SAE sockets and only small impact sockets
Napa - performance tool, they carry the socket in 6 point impact