Superb! Your architectural ideas are spectacular, as even moreso your site. 25 acres of peace, privacy, and a custom home: about as close to heaven as anyone can get on this mortal coil. Congrats!
We built our house 6 years ago. I too wanted ICF construction and was willing to pay for it, but it was really new here at the time and our builder really wasn't interested, so I opted for stick built with spray foam insulation. I now see quite a few ICF commercial buildings being built, though very few residential ones.
We have geothermal heat, well to well as you're doing, with 2 6 ton heat pumps. We're saving ~40% on our energy bills. Your idea is perfect: water to air for cooling and water to water for in-floor radiant. It's how I wanted to do it, but the cost was excessive, so we opted for high velocity ducts for both heating and cooling. They works well. However, they are noisier than I was lead to believe, especially in a hot summer when all zones are running all day.
One more thing: I agree with the previous poster, go 18 ft wide for a double garage door. I wish I did.