Dad is mad that I don't want to just move into the house and shop on the Hill, he thinks it is because I don't trust him, frankly I don't, I told him it was because I don't trust his wife. I met with the company attorney to discuss a few things, one thing he had not anticipated was the "interim" as he put it, basically if Dad is declared incompetent and his wife become power of attorney, the time before he passes away. Honestly, I am pretty sure he will be declared incompetent long before he dies.
Dad keeps telling me to write up an agreement for the house, yet he keeps changing the price, keeps adjusting timelines, and generally making me nervous. The land cannot be sold without a huge tax consequence, unless it is sold to a "non related" party, then he can sell it for far less than market value and the IRS can't say boo. Basically it makes more sense for me to rent it from him, then in the will he would leave it to me. Based on his parents age at death 99 and 100, he probably has another 30 years left in him. Essentially this would be setup like a mortgage that would be forgiven at death, but it has to show rent instead with an option to purchase based on unknown things. He and his wife are meeting on Monday with the attorneys and the accountant to try and get the will finalized, I doubt it will happen, but the attorneys are essentially saying it is ready to sign with minor detail tweaks so that there would be something moving forward. Once they have this figured out, they will have a family meeting to discuss it, can't wait for that, should be awesome.
So to answer your question, between the snow, the family ****, the business ****, and lack of daylight, I am probably as bad as I have ever been, at least this early into the dark season. I wanted to spend time at the office, but I almost can't bring myself to go there, I dragged home paperwork to do, but then realized I was missing an important part and would have to go to the office, now here I am today wanting to plow out the SG and do some work on my plow so I don't have to borrow one and it looks like I am going to end up in the office this weekend. I honestly think things are going to get much worse and Dad will try and make my life a living hell if I don't do what he thinks is right. I had anticipated all the house/shop stuff happening in the spring and this shortened timeframe has left me in the lurch, pretty sure that was exactly what the employee had figured, people say I am paranoid, but this guy is a master of screwing you over without actually looking like he did anything.