somewhat different situation. On our farm I manage the shop, and when employees want to use the shop for personal gains, we let them do it at no charge. Now when it comes to making money on projects that arent theres, there is a shop charge. We have a few folks(most of them) who are slobs. Some are just packrats, others are just lazy. The one person I asked to get all of his stuff that was leftover from a personal project, out of the shop because it was taking up too much space and didnt need to be in there. He shrugged it off, so when he was gone trucking one day i took all of the stuff and piled it in the back of his truck. He never said anything, but I found it funny that he never took it out of his truck bed for 3 weeks.
Then theres the cow feeder who thinks the parts for the feeding equipment are "special" and all have to be on a nail b the door instead of with the rest of the parts in the appropriate section. I always put the parts where they belong then he goes to the NAPA guy and says OMG i dont have a belt for the hydro pump I need one. Then I tell the NAPA guy to not order it, and tell the feeder we have one its by the rest of the belts. He thought we needed VOLVO super oils for the loader buy the service manual lists Valvoline approved oils (NAPA is rebranded valvoline). Why he was so worried about this is beyond me, as he never service the loader anywhere on time and it needed a $28,000 transmission because of it. I immediately went to the boss (my daddy, yes Im an owners son) and told him that this guy is fired from servicing anything, he agreed that I should do the service. Then the feeder tells a coworker that the transmission going out was the bosses fault because he told the boss he just didnt have time to service it. We pick on the boss all the time about that, but since the feeder does no wrong, (50 year old bachelor who lived with his mom till he was 46) we just go on with our lives.
Then we have theguy who claims the shops tools, he hides them everywhere on the farm, you can straight up ask him where a caulk gun is and he will say he doesnt know, then you can walk back to the shop with 3 of them from the barn and he will just say Ohh I didnt know those were there. Guys dense.
The feeder likes to claim tools too. Anything he would use on the feeding equipment he would stash in the feed truck. But now he doesnt service us so all is good.
Then there is the others who frequent through the shop, the use MY box as a storage place. They leave a popcan on my box and I throw it at their head. They leave one of the shops tools on my box and I just put it away, as I am the shop manager, I need to be somewhat professional. Im also the owners son, so naturally the spotlights shined on me and everyones out to get me.
For the packrats in our shop who stockpile things, I just throw them away on weekends when Im at the shop working.
I dont agree with/ get a long with enough of the people who pass through the shop, but I deal with it, over it.
My cousin is probably reading this because he has no life and sits on the internet searching my screenname all day.
But anyways to the OP, be the bigger man. If theres anything Ive learned by dealing with many people in my day, its to simple just stand their and agree and take responsibility for what they say. Its not worth the fight. But at the same time dont let them make you their punching bag, if you get what I mean??? Stand up for yourself, but let some things slide. Being the bigger man sometimes gets you further on a personal lever.
Ive thrown stepladders at people, so Im not some calm cool hippe just so you know. I tend to call people the curly headed **** who is in the **** using the **** with the ****.
So what Im saying is yelling gets you nowhere, calm cool and collected gets you far, being right while being cool calm and collected doesnt get you too far because then you are right and hurting egos evern though you are right.
Life *****, and so does what happened to you.