Meh. Not at home. How many people you see breaking out the torque wrench when putting on a donut or rotating wheels?
I know I know, floating rotors, and all that jazz but people don't really do it. They just torque it "tight" with a lug wrench. Different strokes for different folks.
(I do use a torque wrench for lug nuts though I didn't always do it).
I really don't care how many people do it. It is the proper procedure, no matter what way you cut it.
I've seen first hand the result of not torquing wheels. A former technician at our shop over torqued the wheels and not once, but twice had studs brake and wheels come off. These weren't 82 Honda Civics either, a classic Buick and a Testarossa were the victims.
I know how inconvenient it is to take the 2 minutes to torque wheels. And I know nothing i say, or logic i bring to the table will change peoples minds on the "tight enough" method. Like you said, to each their own.

At least once a week I have to use mechanical means to remove a wheel AFTER removing all the lugs. Then again I do work on some pretty neglected vehicles.
I've even been called out to help a friend change a flat that he couldn't get off the hub because it was so corroded on. (Rear alloy wheel).