I've been married for 8 years, active duty Navy for all of them. I don't wear a wedding ring to work, too easy to get snagged in a line (rope, for you non-nautical types), it's a shock hazard working on my RADAR system, and it's an expensive liability every time I put it in my pocket. I leave it at home most times, wearing it only when the wife and I go out together. I know I'm married and so does she. Neither of us needs a finger-cuff to remind us. If your SO needs you to wear it, you can get 'em cheap at TJ Max or Amazon.
Also, congrats!