Were currently looking at installing a generac generator! Just a few comments:
The house is aprox 2600 Sq Ft. 4 T heat pump (Electric) WH is electric, Well. We added a 30,000 BTU wall heater to the basement family room, propane, the kitchen gas top is propane, as is the dryer.
Based on what you've got, your going to be into a 20-22KW generator!
When getting estimates I would ask that they not put the WH, and HP in the load calculations, as we could always turn off the AC or the WH if we need to reduce the load. All the dealers would not quote the installation that way, as the systems are to be automatic start systems, and there is no guarantee that we would be home to turn the HW and AC off. Turns out in some areas, that is also stated in the electrical codes.
Without the HP (emergency), WH, and well loads, we could run on a 16 KV generator. Using the calculator, as soon as I added either the WH or Well, it would change th generator size up to 22KV.
Our installation costs were around $8,200 give or take a few $$ depending on options chosen.
Hope this helps!!