I'll agree -- Posi-Lock connectors have been pretty much bulletproof in my experience, mostly in the harsh environments of motorcycles. They are bulky and expensive, but you don't need crimpers or tools and they're pretty much foolproof. I carry a few in my motorcycle tool kit, but they're perfectly appropriate for permanent repairs and modifications.
It's weird... some people love those melty solder things, some hate them.
I'm in the "very disappointed" camp.
I've tried, really I have, with a few different brands, even the expensive ones. The essential problem is that in the real world there's a very narrow heat range between melting the solder completely and damaging the heat shrink. It takes a lot more heat than just glue-lined heat shrink, and too often you don't have 360 degree access and the plastic starts dripping before half the solder ring melts.
If you're making a demonstration connection for YouTube, where you have access to all sides and you can move it around easily to ensure even heating, then great.
But even with a heat shield and nozzle, it's damn near unpossible to walk that fine line in many real-world situations where you don't have full access. And with other wires and stuff nearby, it's also waaaay too easy to damage something else; these connectors take a LOT of heat.
The other problem is with the low-temp solder. If the connection might ever conceivably get hot again, through current + resistance or environment, these aren't appropriate. because the solder could re-melt.
So for stuff like trailer lighting, sure, go ahead. Anywhere near an engine, and/or with potentially high current, or somewhere really crowded, use something else.
I have a lot of options on hand, but the glue-lined heat shrink crimp connectors, with the CORRECT ratcheting crimper specifically for heat shrink connectors, have become my go-to for vehicle wiring. I also use a lot of high-quality crimp connectors with the correct matching ratcheting crimper, along with heat shrink tubing to protect the wires and create strain relief.