An 80 gallon water pressure tank in a residential home?!... That's one massive house!
20 to 40 gallons are the standard residential home sizes .. look at the chart that Firebrick43 posted above, or look at any other online chart for pump flow + pressure switch cut on/off. You must have one crazy water system as it's not normal by the way you describe it.
As stated above, and confirmed by the chart Firebrick43 posted (and others available online), a pressure tank is only meant to smooth out the pressure variances when small amounts of water are used, thereby preventing the pump from cycling when it's not needed.
The OP has an issue with water pressure when the taps are wide open. This 100% tells me it's related to the pumping system, and NOT the pressure tank. So, OP needs to check the following:
With a few taps wide open, does the pressure switch automatically and consistently trip when the cut on pressure is reached (30 psi i believe you said)? Or, is it sporadic, only switching on some of the time? If it's only some of the time, you'll need to either remove and clean the pressure switch, or just replace it. Can you manually use the little metal lever on your pressure switch to reliably turn the pump on and off? If not, can you bridge the contacts with an insulated screw driver (careful, that's live voltage across those terminals)? If the pump only occasionally kicks on from you manually bridging the connection, then use a multimeter with capacitance settings and measure the pump capacitor (you should properly and safely discharge the cap before testing. If you dont know how to do this - dont attempt it as the cap has enough juice to seriously harm you).
If the switch is good AND the cap is good but the pump still isnt reliably kicking on, or producing the 50 or 60 psi that your switch cut off is set to, your pump is likely the next thing to check. This generally consists of pulling the pump from the well - inspecting the wiring and, if it's a relatively new pump, testing it in a large drum of water (with a restrictor valve attached to the output to simulate head/water weight for proper function)