Lots of good comments here. I'll try to answer some of the questions.
We tend to have roughly 5 months of snow season here. Probably three months of that has potential for heavy snowfall (Although the last couple years has been extremely light). Snow load has always been an issue here all my life. Not just collapses, but there is lots of trouble with ice dams causing water backup and interior damage, not to mention icicles growing and falling and injuring people. If we get over a couple feet of snow, it is customary to shovel off the roofs in my area.
Founded or not, this is one of my big worries. I am no longer in a condition that I can get on the roof and shovel for five or six hours in a day to clear it off. You can hire it done, but it's hit or miss, usually spotty and done by uninsured individuals looking to make side money. One of my main goals for this retirement property is to have a roof that sheds snow, so it will not be an issue in my life again. Most doors and windows will be on the gable ends, and the small doors that will not be will be covered by an extension that will allow entering from the side where not only will there be no worry of folks getting hit by snow sliding off, it will also be set up so there will be no slide off to have to shovel.
I am assuming that with in floor heat plus really good insulation, there will not be a lot of heat against the roof from the inside. That's why I thought light or dark color would make a difference in my situation. There are lots of metal roofs here. We had about a foot and a half of snow on Christmas eve. So I've been watching the metal roofs here, trying to do my own unscientific survey of which works better; and I don't think I noticed that one color necessarily works better than another. But as I said, that is not my educated study, just a guess.
At this point not one nail has been pounded or one nickel spent, so this is the time to think this through and decide. Thank you for all your thoughts on the subject!