I have a friend who was in the old school way of thinking, in that if you want a light on you turn on the switch, and if you want it off you turn off the switch. He was like this until he met his wife 10 years ago, and she had twin 7 year old girls.
Fast forward a few years, and just like any other kids, the girls leave every light on in the house, even after he yells at them to shut them off. Now that the girls are 17, it is even worse. My friend says when he and his wife go out for dinner and come home at night, every single light in the house is on, and the place looks like a giant Christmas tree.
He changed his old school way of thinking once the electric bills started to rise, especially in the summer when the girls would crank the air conditioning down to 65 degrees and leave it like that when they left the house and forgot to put it back up.
He now has WIFI cameras in the house so he can see if lights are left on, and with smart receptacles and smart light switches, he can shut them off. He replaced all his thermostats with WIFI versions, and he set it up so that he gets an alert anytime the girls mess with the temperature. He can then re-set it to what it should be.
He has several Alexa devices in the house so that at night, when he and his wife are in bed, and he can see that the girls left the kitchen lights on, he just has to say, "Alexa, shut off the kitchen lights", and they go off. He does not have to get out of bed. He does not have to use his smart phone. And he does not have to waste electricity with the lights being on all night.
Kids are kids, and my hard headed friend learned quickly that no amount of telling them will make them change. So with the advent of smart devices, we can at least make things a bit easier on ourselves and not have to blow a gasket every time we come home to our house lighting up the entire neighborhood.
Some technology is actually making our lives better. You can embrace it, or you can ignore it. That is the great thing about it. You don't have to use it if you don't want to, and those who want to use it, and like it, can use it and enjoy the benefits of it.
Jim