That's a helluva project. I feel your pain and know the feeling of final completion!
(Reading this thread late to the game...)
Couple years ago, trenched to an out-building with too small of a ditch witch. It worked, but definitely worth getting the mega ditch-witch. Nothing is worth struggling with and the smaller unit we used easily bound up on rocks slightly smaller than a baseball. Anyhow.. it worked begrudgingly with a bit more effort and time.
Installed were three (3) 2" conduits with roughly 125' run. One was for low-voltage network and I still have a spare conduit.
Reading through this brings back some memories on asking many electricians and reviewing code and finally talking with an inspector prior to doing the work. There was A LOT of confusion about how to ground the the remote building and connecting or not connecting the ground between panels and isolated neutral (ground loop anyone?)
IIRC, my out-building 100amp sub-panel has an isolated neutral buss bar. The sub-panel has its own ground rod that is pounded straight into ground. I remember asking the electrician that helped, "we have this huge ditch, why not lay the ground rod in it and bury it, ground is ground, right?" Ha! My guess is that too many people take this short-cut and when the inspector cannot see the tip of the ground rod, they start to ask for pictures.. anyhow, we passed with flying colors, did it right, and the electric has been error free for years now.