OP,
From your line of questioning, it seems you don't feel comfortable designing and installing an entire electrical system in a building.
So the first step is to read up a lot more. Most DIY books at big box stores show basic installation information of individual items, but give little information about design of the overall system.
I always start by making a list of ALL present and possible future equipment and do a layout of where things will go. In some cases, you need to provide power everywhere because you have no idea where things will go.
I try to nail down, as much as possible, all the fixed locations of equipment and lighting, and then distribute a system of power to cover all the possible variable locations where power and lighting might be needed.
Don't forget exterior locations and even lighting and power in the yard.
Then you need to analyze how the power will be used. How many people will be using machinery at the same time, and what will the draws be?
Add up all the possible simultaneous draws and size the panel and feed for that, with a factor for future additions.
Get a panel that has extra spaces and capacity.
You also need to balance the panel when installing circuits.
Locate the panel based on convenience, electrical code rules and efficiency. A bad location can cost extra for wiring.
A common mistake is to ask how many receptacles can be installed on a circuit, and then maxing it out. Extra receptacles don't mean extra power, just more locations to obtain the 20A the circuit provides. That's why I call them convenience receptacles. I would MUCH rather have additional circuits with less receptacles on each one. And stagger locations. It means more wire, but also more possible uses.
Same goes for feeding lighting. I would run less on a circuit, to provide for the possibility of adding later.
Run more wire and more circuits than you think you will need, with loops of wire in walls and ceiling, where possible future additional lights and receptacles and other uses might occur.
And don't forget security, fire, communication, computer network and other kinds of wiring.
Mark and photograph this wiring layout before covering.
Just a few ideas off the top of my head.
Bill