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Sure feels that way sometimes.No good deed goes unpunished.
Sure feels that way sometimes.No good deed goes unpunished.
Like I tell my kids: you can't control how you feel, but you do control your response.I shouldn't feel the way I do as I have been so blessed in life, but for some reason I have allowed these outside influences into my mind over the past few days and they have messed with me more than they should.
No need to apologize in my view; your thread, your soapbox.Thank you for those who have responded, and I apologize for the sidetrack.
Technology will have advanced so much that Mike's grandson will be communicating with the DRO telepathically.That lathe stand really turned out nice Mike! I thought it was good before you filled the gap but your execution and use of the cut off top piece was genius. Like you said, you and the next 2 generations of your family will be able to use that.![]()
Don’t apologise mate, I can totally relate to everything you brought up.All, I apologize for my ramblings over the past few days about my small problems. It just seems like the group here shares much of these emotions and I like to think of my thread as not only a sharing of projects, but a conversation of how we can all improve and become better people with a common thread or interest.
I shouldn't feel the way I do as I have been so blessed in life, but for some reason I have allowed these outside influences into my mind over the past few days and they have messed with me more than they should.
Thank you for those who have responded, and I apologize for the sidetrack.
Awww, Sterling. @LXCam is going to be so flattered when he reads this...Mike, just a thought for you. Since I have been in down here in Prescott my wife and I have become quite close to a great group of friends. These people have been friends for close to 40 years, some have been friends since birth over 60 years ago. I’m becoming very close to the ringleader of this bunch, just spent a week with him on a trip. One of the best things I am getting out of this friendship is that his personality, work ethic, and demeanor is inspiring me to be a better person. I know we all are not perfect, but I know I can be better. I believe that if I was lucky to have you as a friend, you would also have that same effect on me. Thanks again for sharing what you do with me and the rest of us on here.

I hear ya! I'm glad I don't have to deal with that any more!!!In the corporate world I worked in all my customers were internal and there was no way to get them to go away..

It appears that you are right in the middle of a mental struggle. I often have to remember that my emotions and feelings about something are created in my brain - they aren't actually real. They are made up based on personal values/rules and experiences or memories that might not be accurate. It's hard, but you can turn them off.Thank you very much for your kind words and I'm glad I'm not alone, but not that I would wish for others to have to experience that **** from people.
My wife and I learned very early on in our marriage that the ONLY reason we could afford a certain lifestyle and certain toys in life was because of my skillset and both of our abilities and desire to work and provide. Neither of us made much money in our careers as we had no secondary schooling, mainly just school of hard knocks.
Both my wife and I are the only ones in our immediate family that are not college educated. All of my siblings are and all of my wife's siblings are, and to some extent I think that makes them feel a bit "entitled" to certain things in life, maybe even my time as well. OR, maybe that is just the way I interpret their selfish behaviors. Either way I do NOT begrudge someone with a college degree, don't get me wrong. I think it is commendable as long as it is a worthwhile field. Don't even get me started on the whole ivy league entitlement **** or worthless degrees or I can go on for hours.
That being said, both my wife and I saw the immediate benefits from what a college degree brings to a person in the professional arena, so we were hell bent on the fact that our son was going to college, no ifs, ands or buts. Fortunately, he was all in on the idea even from a young age and not only did an amazing job throughout his college years but has excelled afterwards in his career and for that I am very proud and pleased that our sacrifices which made that possible for him weren't wasted.
Not sure why I went off on the whole secondary education thing there other than one thing you mentioned spurred that thought (in green above), which then sparked another thought about finances and money. You said "others being generous with their talents". I think that is where my life differs to some degree. Most of the people mine and my wife's families, other than my oldest brother, really don't bring anything to the table in regards to talents or skills that can be shared. Their careers were/are in the academia world and business to some extent and nothing of any use to me so rather than exchanging my skills for theirs, I'll take the money, plain and simple.
While I choose who I give my work away to, and I have been generous in the past with my work (maybe hard to believe), I find very few these days being worthy of that generosity. Maybe I'm a bit sinical or harsh but when I have people seek me out to "give them my work" yet they have all of the luxuries of the modern world yet my wife and I are driving older vehicles and have 6+ year old phones, lived in the same home for 26 years, etc., I find it very hard to see their situation of a car breaking down due to neglect and why that instantly becomes my problem.
Like you, I feel my only worth to most people is what I can do for them and not what kind of person I am. For that it has taken me years to overcome, because I always felt that if I do something for someone, they will reciprocate when I need a hand. That is NOT the case 99.9% of the time and I can count on one hand and have fingers left over how many people I can count on if something were to arise where I needed something. I had a health scare/issue a couple of years ago that put me down completely for about two weeks and then another 6+ months until I was back to even 75% and I saw absolutely no one from either of our families and only one friend who reached out, besides my wife and son of course.
Maybe that says more about me than them, but it taught me a lesson and that is my wife and I have absolutely no one to count on but ourselves. To some extent maybe that is a good thing because I hate owning others anything, so I guess it pays off in the long run.
I have also learned over the past few years that I don't think planned for our financial freedom in retirement as early as we should have. We both had pensions when we started our careers and therefore focused on things like paying our first home off and then acquiring toys and **** like that because we figured our retirement was already addressed and solidified. Well, when then that option went away and our company did away with pensions we were both in our early 30's and were just barely starting to invest and plan for our financial future. Yep, that's all on me and I have no one else to blame for that. I may have played a bit more than I should have in my early years and that has caused me to have to play "catch up" later in life. However, it took me a while to get that chip off my shoulder about what I thought was my shortcomings in life of being "just a mechanic" and I finally figured out that the good Lord blessed me with a skillset and I had better put that skillset to good use.
I get the same thing when people see my shop and tools and what they don't understand is that took a lifetime to acquire and nothing in that shop came cheap, whether it be monetary or time spent working late nights into early mornings, and for that reason I see that I should see some form of ROI for my choices.
I try not to let it creep into my life as well, but there are times I am unsuccessful and it gets the better of me. I don't know why but when I take on a job I feel obligated to do the best I can and somehow I take that too personal. When I explain to someone I don't know when I'll get to their project and they accept those terms, then come back later and insult me, I guess rather than shrug it off I take offense and take it as a personal attack. I wish I could just let **** go at times, but I can't. I feel I have been blessed so much in life and I want to use that skillset that I have been blessed with to enrich my family's life. However, at times I wish I could just close my shop doors off to the outside world.
Mike I know exactly how you feel! I do electrical and HVAC side work. I’ve used the same philosophy the last two years and there are people who get it and those that don’t. I say goodbye to those that don’t. We are all in agreement here that our time is limited and precious. If someone tries to be ****** with my time they can excuse themselves out of my life.Thanks Justin. I actually did enjoy it, for the most part. I've had it bouncing around in my head for nearly as long as I've had the lathe, so it was nice to finally be able to get to it.
Now for somewhat of a rant.
I say "for the most part" with some trepidation however, just because I have some other work on my son's vehicles to do and some work on my assets that needs to be completed. However, lately I have been getting some calls from very anxious (and to some extent upset) people who have been on my list of side work who have not been happy with me and my delays. These calls have been affecting me mentally and emotionally, and not necessarily in a good way. My wife asked me why I chose now to do this particular project, and I simply said, "because I wanted to". Once I had found the storage box locally and had it sitting in the shop it drove me nuts not starting the project and looking at that box every day.
While I am very grateful for those people who put their trust in me to work on their vehicles or projects, I will NOT put off my own assets and that extends to my son's assets. Our stuff comes first, period. I made that commitment to myself and my family about 10 years or so ago because I was putting off repairs on our stuff to work on other people's and put up with something of my own not being in proper repair. I figured with my business, I had to make some sacrifices, but it drove me up a freakin' wall and something had to change. These days I simply will not allow our stuff or projects to be delayed just to make someone else happy.
If people are ok with that great. If not, they are welcome to take their vehicles or projects elsewhere with no hard feelings. Most understand that I work a full-time job and only have a couple hours a night to work in my shop and are more than ok with that, others not so much.
I explain that right up front before I even commit and if they can't live with that then I would rather make sure they understand that from the beginning. I also don't work on stuff for people I don't know, unless they are recommended from a person I do know. I just don't take on jobs from the general public or people I have no connection to.
Most people have a lengthy list of personal projects that they want to get to after they get home from work each day and I am no different. The only difference is that I "choose" to take on some side jobs when time allows, not only for the extra money, but also to help others out and to continue learning. I wish more people understood that. When I closed my speed shop down in 2017 after purchasing our new home I was done dealing with people. Most people only care about their own projects and think nothing of it being a bother to someone else. Granted, I benefit monetarily from this work, but it's not life altering income and is just as much about continuous learning as it is about earning money. I am also flattered that people don't trust other shops after coming to me as I feel I provide much better workmanship than they can get anywhere else, but that may be debatable. When I built the new shop, I told my wife I was just going to work on our own stuff and no one else's because I was tired of being treated like I was a commodity.
Once we got the new house where we wanted it and my shop setup and all our personal vehicles in back into proper condition, I thought I'd take on an occasional side job to keep my time occupied as I don't like sitting dormant and not having a project. I swore I wouldn't do "the list thing" again, but I started that back up again a couple of years ago as my phone was ringing more and more and I couldn't keep them straight or in order. My process then became I work on our stuff and when I have time or a gap between personal projects, I go to the list of side work and take on the next job in order. When it's done if I have time I go to the next, if not I tackle whatever personal project I have come up and rinse and repeat. Unfortunately, this entire year has been one personal project after another starting with our attached garage completion back in January and I just haven't been able to get my feet under me all year long. Between some major work on my son's vehicles and some projects of my own that I have put off, I just haven't been able to get to "the list" and it has made some people upset.
Sorry for the rant, but just been feeling a little overwhelmed lately and then guilty for building the lathe stand that I have wanted to build for nearly 10 years. Some days I just want to hit "delete" on the list and quit answering the phone. But on the other side, I actually enjoy working on stuff for other people, when I have time, and it doesn't conflict with my own stuff that is.
Probably much more than people wanted to hear nor care about but back to the regular scheduled program and rant over.![]()
Embrace diversity.Love the lathe tool box and all its details……but gasp……black handles with in view of a red tool box with chrome?
Mike, loving the new lathe stand. Glad you made a over for the opening on the tool box. My ocd was going crazy seeing chips and such getting in there. Nice work!












































Many years ago I was working on a project in the Chicago area. I needed a ratcheting tap handle for a small tap. I ended up at an old, traditional tool supply house. They sold me a Greenfield. From that point forward, I have always bought Greenfield when I can. I've found some really good deals on NOS Greenfield tap handles on ebay over the years.
Nice update on projects and a nice repair on the sensor Mike.
Any chance you could remove that anvil and make a new one? May be a moot point depending on how long that would take and what they cost.
I have one like that only split all of the way apart leaving only one driving flat on the jaw, looks like it might be the same size too. Mine is a 91B, and because I just looked up my purchase of it I guess that I've been ignoring it for too long. Time to contact Starrett about it.Has anyone experienced this issue with their Starrett 91B tap handle?
I have had two of these Starrett tap handles over the course of about 25 years now. The first one lasted about 20 years without issue. Then about 5 years or so I noticed the moveable anvil split so I sent it back and they repaired it under warranty and all I had to do was cover shipping costs.
Here is my Starrett next to my old Greenfield tap handle which just seems to keep on going without any issues at all.
It's hard to see but if you look closely you can see the hairline crack in the anvil that runs parallel with the handle.
Here with a tap inserted the crack spreads open a bit.
I'm a little disappointed in it. I figured the first one was a fluke seeing as how it lasted so long but this one has only lasted about 5 years and doesn't get used anywhere near as much as my first one did as it saw almost daily use.
With Starrett not being Starrett any longer I doubt it will be covered and I wonder even more so about the quality. Not sure what to do at this point. Wondering if anyone else has experienced this? I don't crank down exceptionally tight on the taps, I think it has more to do with the forces applied being torsional and pulling the V apart at the center of the anvil, but can't tell for certain.
I have one like that only split all of the way apart leaving only one driving flat on the jaw, looks like it might be the same size too. Mine is a 91B, and because I just looked up my purchase of it I guess that I've been ignoring it for too long. Time to contact Starrett about it.
I suspect that it's the sharp corner in the bottom of the notch that has no stress relief shape to it. Mine was clearly a hard steel brittle failure. If it just had a small hole that the two flats intersected, much like how you drill-stop the end of a crack before welding, I believe that the problem would go away.
If the angle is closed up, even a little, that would sure make everything worse!
EDIT: Starrett just got back to me. It may be possible to buy the replacement part(s). See attached
What their Tech Dept just emailed to me:
03339-0 PLUNGER SUB ASSEMBLY is listed for $8.50
03343-0 PIN, .062D X .266L is listed for $5.00
I've not disassembled mine, no idea why they say that the pin should be ordered with the plunger.
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Mike, excellent repair on that sensor!
The gathering looked very nice, this bit had me drooling:
Got it from amazon and their order entry for it says that it is a 91B. I need to confirm this with the handle itself before I order anything.Just to confirm, yours IS the same 91B as mine, correct?
Thanks.
Got it from amazon and their order entry for it says that it is a 91B. I need to confirm this with the handle itself before I order anything.