Duker, I'll put it to ya this way. I don't remember my 50th. I do remember my 55th only because of my car affliction the wife kinda did a Sammy Hagar themed deal. Lol
My biggest issue is I'll jump into something and my head goes at it like I'm still in my 30's but reality now quickly sets in that 60 ain't allllll that far off.....woof!
Mike, brother I totally understand the pride in producing a product that is normally beyond reproach. I started my first business over 30yrs ago with not much more then a pick, a shovel and a bag of tools. And regardless of whether it was construction or cars, my reputation meant more then ever making a profit. There was a time in contracting when I had over 30 guys in the field and was thinking about making the next jump up. Problem was some of the quality was going to **** and I'd show up on a project, lose my mind and make them tear it out and do it to my expectations. The day finally came I dropped the field back to my core group of guys that had been with me for years and focused on my goal......bringing value to this world. Ya I know how corny that sounds but it is what it is as I could always sleep at night knowing "we did our best".
When I opened up the performance shop and very specialized parts manufacturing biz after the economy and construction took a complete dump I went at it with the same vigor. But soon found out it's just not possible to charge for every minute of your time which cost me dearly. This lasted as a full time gig for only a couple years and all though we were eating it wasn't worth the 100hr weeks even though it was one of the most enjoyable times in my life. Lots of travel, lotta racing and a whooole lotta cocktailing all over the country. My reputation in that little niche market is spotless and I can travel anywhere knowing I got a buddy within reasonable distance I could rely on if the need arises.
Unfortunately the need to make money took over and after being prodded back into what I do best I opened up a construction consulting business. And all though life is good it's not what keeps me sane. One of these days I'm going to have to grow up and decide what it is I wanna do for a living
Mike and everyone my apologies for the overshare. Now back to your regularly scheduled program.![]()
Looks like a fun trip out to Montana! We were just out there last year, its really a great place to visit. Heading back to the black hills this summer. I can't seem to get enough of the west.
Thanks for sharing!
My wife & I are sitting in the Spokane airport headed back to the humidity belt, after being all over northern Idaho and western Montana. We’ve been here for 2 weeks and had an absolutely wonderful time and actually made an offer on a piece of property just outside of Coeur d’Alene and hope to close in a week or so. Just means we get to come back up sooner than later. We envy your “seasons” in this part of the country.
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Agreed, I love living out here and the wide expanses to visit.
One thing I learned about Virginia City this trip that I didn't now before was that many of the panes of glass, doors, etc. are still original. That got me to thinking as my wife and I were walking up and down the streets. I stopped at one corner and turned back towards the little town and it just hit me, if the streets were not paved and the cars and trucks lining the street were replaced with horses and carriages the little town would look nearly identical to what it did back in its day. That was a pretty amazing thing to see.
Thanks for stopping by and I hope you are able to get more time out here. As for the Black Hills, we love that area as well. My wife and I will be heading there again sometime in September if all goes as planned.
I hate landscaping. What if your GC painted the shop and you looked at it and it was sticky, streaks, the wrong shade and tint and he just says "Give it 2 to 3 years and than it will look perfect" But the landscaping guys do that everyday!
Kevin
I'm battling this very thing.. **right now**. I have the perfect, for me, day job. Working conditions, schedule, benefits, pay can not be beat. I'm very good in my current foreman position. I have a great crew. What's not to love? My upholstery business is never going to match what I make at my day job, even if I put in twice the hours. Never mind the fact that self employment doesn't give "benefits", etc. I've been telling myself I'll quit the day job right before I turn 50, and enjoy the business, despite these realities.. Time will tell. 1499 days to go!
Very neat! We gave good consideration in stopping at Virginia City, but didn't have enough time. The windows at the Mining Museum in Butte were exactly as you described though. They have quite a collection of old mining machinery to check out as well.
One area in WY that really is under appreciated IMO, is the Big Horn National Forest. The drive on 14 between Shell and Dayton is really spectacular through the canyons and mountains. Its not as grand as the Rockies, but it also keeps the touristy feel away too.
Looks like we will just miss you in the Black Hills. We will be there in the later part of August.
Anywho, sorry to derail your thread!
Dan and Mike, thanks guys I greatly appreciate what was said. If we ever get together the root beer floats are on me......ya I stopped drinking a few years back
Steven. Having been there and done that I'll echo mikes sediments 1000%. I also need to add that as a one man shop andno matter how good you are you can make a good living, but you'll never make good money. I got to enjoy many years of chasing my passions only because I had several good reliable folks covering my overhead. Don't take that comment as I got to play all the time as I worked a minimum of double what anyone else did. But I worked hard so I could play hard. My greatest demise was I have never been a true business man despite my successes. Why?, because I cared about everyone that worked for me like they were family. When work was slow I should have laid them off accordingly but that wasn't me, I still kept them all working full time even if that meant bullshitting around the shop or maybe a major project or two at the house. Whatever it took for them to keep both benefits and food on the table for their families. All that caring took a toll on me and our retirement when the economy completely died out here. Had I shut it all down a couple years before I did, I'd be retired right now kicking back in my boat somewhere.
What I like about my current business is I have no employees. You have no idea what a relief that is as large construction projects ebb and flow. When it's slow I have plenty to do and have no one but my immediate family to be concerned about.
My only suggestion would be to never regret your decision. Don't wake up one day wishing you had gone for it. My dad could have built a thriving pool construction business but was afraid of not being able to feed the family, so he ran businesses for others his entire life and made them a **** pot load of coin. Myself, the only regret is I cared too much but I can live with that.![]()
Very well said Cam and my hat is off to you sir.
Personally, I fall under that too afraid to take the plunge category. I have a good life, have made a pretty good living (granted working two-jobs) and have a good nest egg built up and don't want to jeopardize any of that. Yet on the other hand I sometimes ponder where I would be had I taken the plunge earlier in life and taken the path of self-employment. I'm not saying I have regrets, I just sometimes wonder. My life right now is pretty spectacular though so I feel like a **** for even wondering what my life would have been like had I taken another path and followed my heart rather than my head.
My father on the other hand was a dairy farmer, which also meant my entire family were all farmers, and he generally worked 20-hour days only needing 4+ hours sleep a day. I still don't know how he ever did it. When he saw farming start to take a downward turn in the late 70's he took some property out of the greenbelt and built a motel and restaurant on a couple of acres and by the time I was a senior in high school we were getting out of the dairy business. My mom and dad ran the motel/restaurant business and my brother in law and I ran the remaining 70+ acres of farm with alfalfa, wheat, potatoes and sugar beat crops but I quickly came to the realization that I was NOT a farmer as all I could think about was wrenching on ****.
I had a great childhood with parents who cared for me and my siblings tremendously. That being said, my father never saw me play in a single football game in school and let me know that it was an inconvenience picking me up several times a week after practice. I am in NO way blaming my father for anything other than doing a great job providing for his family but I swore I would be a more hands on father and not have a profession that would keep me from my family (I feel like a ***** for even saying that). I feel blessed that even when I was working both my full-time job and my part-time job that I NEVER missed a single baseball practice or game of my son's nor a parent-teacher conference. I don't think that would have been the case had I taken a different road early on in my life so for that I am grateful and in utter awe of those who can juggle both successful businesses AND family. I just don't think I could be one of them.










No need to apologize Cam. I enjoyed the story and although I haven't worked for myself to the extent that you have, I completely understand where you are coming from with trying to not only provide a living for your family but also to give back to the community, bringing value to the world.
I try to do my part to give back (bring value if you will) but not to the degree that you have by any stretch. My wife and son know and understand what makes me tick and they understand my passion to change the perception of what a mechanic is. I realize that mechanics get a bad rap and granted, sometimes that bad rap is well deserved but many times it is merely a poor or mis-placed perception of mechanics based on isolated situations. That is what I have tried to change my entire career.
My goal throughout my entire career, besides providing a good living for my family, has always been to have my workmanship as well as my relationship with people who know me to hopefully elevate that perception of mechanics, even if only a small amount. I have put my whole heart into everything I have done in hopes that it will make others want to do the same, many times at a loss on my behalf but I can at least lie my head on the pillow at nights knowing I did my best. I'm not perfect and far from it, but I want my efforts to at least be perfect knowing that I did the work to the best of my ability, even if the outcome is less than perfect.
Again, no need to apologize and thank you for your comments Cam.
Also, I don't want Duke to think I was criticizing his comment. That was the farthest thing from my thinking, I merely went off on a rant about how I can't seem to let things go and allow others to do it for me.
You guys hit a lot of familiar feels!! I grew up in rural southwest Kansas. Wheat farm country. When I was small, my father was a ranch hand. Later we had a small farm of our own. Most people either can’t relate or don’t believe me when I talk about working 60+ hours a week on the farm as a kid. My father was a grade A hard *** SOB. He worked no less than 100 hours every week of his life.
I broke that mold. I was an E5 in the Navy at 19. I busted my *** in the submarine force. The work ethic and attention to detail my father instilled in me have paid me dividends beyond measure. Were we differ is I don’t “care” about “money”.
I know from experience that if I were to have employees, I’d do exactly what Cam described above. There’s no other way in my book. My hope is the day job will let me work part time for all of my fifties. My trade will forever be undermanned, so they just might. In an ideal world, I’ll turn down spending and lifestyle enough to live on what my shop can reasonably, reliably bring in.
These conversations are what I value the most on GJ.
Have a great Fourth guys!!
Steven
Mike, no criticism taken and I appreciate the comments. I also completely understand your points on doing a quality job and trying to find good help.
Cam, also appreciate the background story. It’s the different paths in life that makes us who we are... and yours is certainly more interesting than mine! [emoji3][emoji106]
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Mike,
any tips on the pressure washing of engine compartments and other compartments on the RV? I'd love to wash the battery compartment, propane compartment and engine compartment but I'm a bit worried about spraying the electrical components. I'd hate to have any issues as everything is working great right now.
When I had a forklift come in the shop at work after diagnosing the issue the next place it went was the steam bay to clean it the best I could. I'm a mechanic but I don't like getting dirty.
Mike the wesleys doesn't need to be diluted more than to apply in a wet surface. Power purple works great except it will eat the polish and anodizing off in seconds. Funny sad story. I had just finished my 6.1 hemi build in my street car. Spent a grand just getting the manifold polished and several hundred on anodized rails, fittings, catchcan and a bit of other show pieces. So we do a track day on the big track at willow springs. So here I am at the top of third gear at around 130 in turn 8 setting up for 90 thru turn 9 when the power steering unit blows a seal......yeeee fn haaa! My fighter pilot buddy said that as I cleared turn 9 I looked like a jet breaking the sound barrier haha.
So here I am with a huge mess all over everything and a hundred miles from home. I head over to the local parts place and the only thing they had was PP which I had no experience with. So back to the track, find a hose, spray it down, spray the PP liberally and let it set, grab the hose and proceed to watch allllll those finishes go bye-bye. I was sick to my stomach.
So just keep that in mind. The wesleys won't do that but it does make all the plastic and rubber including metal look like new.
Edit, I'll have to try out that zep product Mike, that sounds like great stuff as well. Thanks for the tip.






Ok I'm gonna go there...
How'd you handle all that activity on the new lawn Mike. Lol
Seriously I'm happy for you bud. That cake is very cool (btw, what kind was it?) and once again happy half year Bday![]()

Looks like a great time was had. I love that cake.
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Ok I'm gonna go there...
How'd you handle all that activity on the new lawn Mike. Lol
Seriously I'm happy for you bud. That cake is very cool (btw, what kind was it?) and once again happy half year Bday![]()
I thought you were going down the path to ask where our invites went??
Mike You had me at boneless ribs! [emoji51]
Tell your wife that the GJ crew says nicely done... it looked like a great party and menu. And... Happy Birthday!
And now for the bad news... welcome to the over 50 old farts club... Cam is a founding member!
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Looks like a good time was had by all.




........I have to say even though it was a simple home repair it was nice to be able to have bench space to work on and be able to walk to a drawer and grab a tap and die and have everything within reach and not have to dig through boxes to find the necessary tools. .............

