You can use the anchors that came with your lift and rest easy. Installing to your rebar gets you
no benefit. All anchors (mechanical and epoxy) develop their strength through a stress cone in the concrete:
The rebar is not involved in that cone. (If you installed to the rebar, the cone would still shoot up above it.)
For two anchors of a similar dimension, the torque spec will change depending on the metallurgy of the anchor. If you are looking at two similar anchors with different torque specs, they should have different tensile properties.
That guy doesn't know what he is doing. The disclaimer in his video states not to follow him and that he's not an engineer. It shows and he has made several mistakes.
The best thing you can do is not make the same mistakes. Buy a brand new drill bit before your project. Use a quality hammer drill - rent one if you need to. This will give you a clean hole and smooth sailing with the anchors.
I used several drill bits to install my lifts and don't regret it. I would bet the guy in the video used an old bit and the two holes he is having problems with were the last two he drilled...
There are many threads on this and many reasons why the mechanical anchors give better assurance and insurance for safety and reliability.
One doesn't need to be an expert to put a video on the internet, but your lift manufacturer knows what they are doing. There are reasons they supplied you with those parts and they did not give you epoxy instructions. Unlike the boys on YouTube, they are experts and know what they are doing.