Bob, you must be doing something right..
Steve, I don't think it's what I'm doing right. Mostly I'm doing fewer things wrong. Same effect but easier to succeed. I've learned not to contradict her directions but that often means turning left when she says right (the other left).
Happy anniversary Bob. I don't have a wife but I my girlfriend of 20 years fills the role. We celebrate as if we were married. It is a good and comfortable feeling.
I also understand the sentiment of "putting up with me"
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Andrew, we used to tell our teenage son we weren't married so we could call him an inconsiderate *******.
Happy anniversary
Bob.
Thank you
Aaron and thank you for stopping by.
That battery looks scary

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I agree.
Simon, I didn't know lithium batteries did that. I'm used to alkaline batteries puking crystals out their ends but this is new. I bought three new Samsung batteries and I'll be checking them more often (at least annually). Our anniversary might be a good reminder -- buy a gift, flowers, card and check the phone battery. Chance of remembering any of the above -- SLIM.
Thank you and see my reply to Steve above.
Glad to hear your exciting week seems to have worked out for the best. I'm glad to hear your cousin has family that cares for him, and is able to take care of him. My sister in law is the Guardian for an elderly gentleman. His son originally got the guardianship, but is MIA and doesn't seem concerned at all with how his father is doing. He does have a couple of brothers that write him, but I'm not sure he remembers them or even knows they exist. It's a very sad situation.
JP, society has changed a lot, including how we care for our loved ones. I remember the older homes in Vermont that had addition after addition added on. The parents stayed in their home, along with their children, until they died. Several generations took care of each other and worked the farm together. I don't remember seeing many "Rest Homes" in Vermont.
Sorry to hear about your cousin! The tough part is when a person does not know he is in trouble. My son in law gets confused and lost, but he knows it and stops to call and ask how to get home. It can be a fun conversation.
Congratulations to you on 55 years, and sympathies to your wife.
After all these years she is still having to train you...
I wish you many more
Andy, that's the worrisome part but because he is giving away his prize Corvettes and clearing out the house, I suspect he knows something is wrong. Both the doctors who checked him out thought he was fine and wanted to release him (until the nurses filled them in). When it was all over, I realized I'm an antique. When he couldn't hear me on his smart phone, I told him to find a pay phone and call me collect. I'm glad he didn't hear me for two reasons: 1) he might have had to drive to Cuba to find a pay phone and 2) I'd be the one being Bakered for talking about mythical devices.
Thanks for the well wishes. I cancelled the printed newspaper delivery to the house so it's much harder for her to train me. Gonna hafta hide the broken broomsticks.
Congrats on 55 years Bob. If my wife keeps me that long it will be a miracle.
Bret
Bret, my theory is that like their pets, they are willing to clean up after us and show affection even when we disappoint.
Congratulations on your 55th Bob. Hope you have many more.
Thank you
Bobby. It feels a little surreal that it has been that long.
Congradulations on making 55 years.....you both must have got married before you hit 12 years old!.........Read about your cousin ,sad but the price we pay for a long life I guess......he must be still a good driver as he sure made it to you the long way!!!! I know what it is as Dad on Long Island got his license renewed when he was 92 yo and for 8 years!!!!!! he said great I will live to be 100...........he only drove for another year and only in his comfort zone [8 mile radius and no night driving].........then let us do the driving [me and brother] but realized he could not cope with Long Island NY traffic........maybe your cousin was just out of his comfort zone [local roads] and will relize that road trips are no more! I was glad to learn of the Silver Alert and the Baker Law as my mother-in-law is 92 and up in Leesburg Fla and still driving , she is also limiting it to local as a few times she got "lost" when she tried to go too far away.......her son and family and sister/brother in law live in the same complex so she has alternative means they are both 10 years younger...........remember getting old is not for sissy's.........enjoy all you postings ......bobbycoke
BobbyCoke, I waited until I was 17 to get married. I can't imagine driving on Long Island in my 90s. I was getting worried when I was in my 30s. I mean, how does a person have an accident on the LIE parking lot? I think part of my cousin's problem was the loss of his wife. She used the smart phone and the computer. She also set up and paid close attention to the GPS on trips. He had the GPS with him but it was safely stored in his suitcase.
My mother drove when she was in her 90s but I coaxed her out of the car when she started doing what my cousin is doing on local drives.
Great achievement.
Probably not hard since you probably keep her in stitches (laugher) and she keeps you straight. Best wishes!
Stewart, thank you so much. Actually I'm not the funny one -- she is. A little bit of her humor has rubbed off on me.
55 Years !!?? Wow, Congratulations.
John, every time I say it I do the same WOW thing. The Episcopal priest who performed the ceremony told us during the counseling session that we shouldn't get married because these "things" never last. So far I have kept my wife from visiting his grave and doing that Russian ****** "thing" on it.