Based on your photo and a manual the bearings are 30mmx55mmx13mm (6006 series bearing) so if you can measure the distance between the retaining rings and subtract 26mm (1.024"), the width of both bearings, you will have your spacer thickness the OD will be 55mm. ID will be ≈40mm. The groove...
sounds like the sensitivity controls which sets the force needed, if your door is heavy or the springs become weak that can cause the opener to stop, the motor coupler broke, could be working the opener to hard.
My uprights are 3 x 1/2" 1018 cold rolled and the holes are 7/8" and the pins are 7/8" I had to hone the holes with a flap wheel. I have no distortion on these holes. the 3" uprights with 7/8 holes have a yield strength of 140 tons
I drilled in a milling machine 7/8" and I used 4140 Pre-Hard Cold Roll for the pins , I set the pump up to put out 3200 PSI which gives 20 ton on a 4" cylinder
Malco made in USA, they bought the original vice-grip plant and improved on design , Vice grip now made in china and quality is less than original US made
when I drilled the holes I welded all 4 pieces of flat together and used a annular cutter. the cylinder is a 4" and pump is 3200 psi which gives you 20 ton