I've dealt with a few wells and due to water quality (hardness) in the area, I eventually moved to water collection, but all the concepts are the same.
Our current setup is about like you describe. Our shop went up first, our shop provides power for the water pump. Initially we used a 3/4 hp 120/240v pump with a built in pressure tank, which was adequate for the shop, easy to setup, and temporary.
Long term:
I bought a 1.5 hp goulds pump. You have to match your desired pressure to the pump's performance. 55/75 is pretty high pressure. I think ours was initially set at 50/70.
I used a PK1A Stop Cycle valve with a smaller pressure tank. I've done it with larger pressure tanks too, but the PK1A is really good about not hard cycling the pump and keeping constant pressure without having to resort to taking up the space of a large pressure tank.
It's CRITICAL that you size not only your pump, but your water line, especially if there is distance from the pump to the residence. We pump about 300' up 10' or so and I chose a 2" line in the yard which results in very little pressure drop. You need a pump that does the desired pressure, desired volume, and the right line sized to the distance and lift.
The other critical thing is to get a pump protector. I really dislike the traditional pump protectors for deep-well pumps, they provide no information. I installed the cycle sensor monitor (
https://cyclestopvalves.com/pages/cycle-sensor-pump-monitor) - it's analog, tunable, and I can tell you that it's saved our pump more than once. It also shows me how much power my pump is drawing.
This system has worked great. I did turn "down" our water pressure to 50-65 (or so) - largely because the pump works really really hard to get to that last 5psi within it's working limit and backing it off a few PSI really doesn't impact water flow at the house.
Design it so you can by-pass filters and use high quality valves for water line on/off... You don't want to be the only person around that knows how to "turn off" the water, so make it easy/simple.
We have a "pump house" - I've had these with wells also... Ours is on a 30A circuit. Because we have UV filtration and do have to heat both the pump house and some externally exposed tank lines, if I was going to do it again, I'd do 40-50A out there total. I end up using the power off that building all the time...
Last, I've had much better luck using PEX wherever possible on the pumps. It handles vibration better, handles heat better, handles cold better - and it's just all around better than PVC.