And quite frankly its none of your damn business. I asked about a lug, one question and rather answer no it is not compatible, the coversation involved into this. Bringing your know it all attitude with it. Like I said before, I know what is being done is a patch not a fix.
Put your money where your mouth is, Ill send you my paypal, and fix it right, or you can have a big tall glass of stfu.
You posted on a forum, involving others, if you didn't want it to be anyone's business you should have kept this all you yourself.
Your story and the details keep evolving, the excuses for why it can't be done keep changing.
It looks like you are overloading a panel/service in a neglected home and are unable or unwilling to fix it properly and are looking for piecemeal advice on how to hack this together. There's probably an acceptable temp fix but you likely won't get good advice unless you give all the details of what's going on and a pic of the panel.
Telling me to shut the **** up because you haven't given all the information, or don't like the reality of the responses?
Good luck, hope you don't burn any of these houses down.