I get all sides of this, but it seems like there needs to be a dose of reality too.
In a perfect world, you would have had a contract, with all the work spelled out.
In the real world, guys working these kinds of small jobs often aren't that adept at putting together detailed contracts. And the guys who are good at putting together good, solid contracts aren't going to bother with you unless you have a lot of work, a lot of money, or both.
Doing work like this, with a contractor like this, is a bit like a marriage. You are both stuck in it now, and you've hit a low point (figuratively, as well as literally). You can scream all you want at the guy, but guarantee you'll get better results by trying to work with him. You have to assume the guy didn't start the job with malicious intent, as in, he didn't take the job thinking "Oh boy, I'm gonna screw this customer!"
If this guy can't make it right, then try to come to an amicable conclusion on the bill, and send him on his way. Chalk it up to a life lesson.
I tried, sincerely, Like I said many times. They walked away from a job that they made $1.25 sqft on as of now, which may go to $0. I offered for them to fix their issue to make $2 sqft. Their original idea was $3.83 a sqft. That was their decision. I offered a compromise on a situation I have the upper hand with. If I thought they had malicious intent I wouldnt have let htem work on the project. It wasnt until project got underway that the sleeziness started coming out. Even to the point of asking him as a homeowner NOT a business owner if he would accept the job as it is. His obviously answer was of course looks great. Even though he KNOWS I only hired him because of the water issue. I told him point blank that his competitor was $1200 less then him so he knew the expectations going in.
Life lessons are one thing. I cancelled a doctor appointment today that cost me $50 because it was last minutes (dealing with this ****) thats a life lesson. A $3000 life lesson (6200 for the fix + the $3000 I've spent) is not a life lesson, that's being taken advantage of.
If this guy is running his operation so lean that he cant afford $7000 in revenue shrinkage then he should consider a different business. Especially to make a customer happy that will most definitely spread the word either good or bad.
Its interesting actually... When we need a contractor to do something the consumer cannot do the contractors are all happy and compassionate while they charge you whatever they want because we don't have the upperhand... Now that the tables are turned and they are on the otherside they act like barbarians, yelling and stomping their feet because they are not used to being the other side of the negotiation table. I wonder if in the future there is a world with more transparency and both sides have negotiating power other hten getting multiple quotes. WHICH BY THE WAY, their entire family competes against each other in this area for paving. He joked with me before **** hit the fan that they tried to price protect themselves but one of the brothers didnt play along and that fell a part.
This is why we need more DIY friendly trades. For this reason. Contractors and any industry that does not sell to consumers is bad for consumers and should be abolished. Hard stop.
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