I'm not sure how the guy burned his house down, but I assume he didn't know what he was doing, or had the generator too close to the house.
Where I live now rarely experiences power outages, but before this we lived in a neighborhood that was down in every storm. Several times we were out for 3-5 days and one time nearly two weeks. Bear in mind this is dangerous and may be illegal to do, but in an emergency it will get you by:
I made a 10 gauge extension cord (originally out of Romex, but later on I made it out of flexible cable) which plugs into my 220 volt generator outlet and plugged into a 220 volt outlet in my garage and allowed me to have the generator well away from the house. I pulled the main breaker on the house - essentially disconnecting everything from the main line, and protecting any workers on the line.
I started up the generator and plugged the generator to the 220 outlet and it would power the entire house. Of course my 6,000 watt generator couldn't 't run my whole house at full load, but it can easily run some lights, the refrigerator, the microwave and the furnace blower, so we had heat, lights and food.
The only problem with this setup is keeping gas in the generator and it's really noisy. I put an automotive muffler on my generator and that quieted it down a lot.