Personally, I think the OP is correct in many ways.
And it's interesting to see how many people are taking his perspective as personal attacks.
Um, most the 'personal' responses are to another poster, who is making it personal. Note who is being replied to in most the responses.
Plus, if you tell people they shouldn't be allowed to heat, cool, insulate their garage, that's pretty personal.
The OP had some interesting points, I agree.
The whole thing is, when you set out to tell someone you 'can't, shouldn't, mustn’t, do what you want when what you want is legal, moral and often enjoyable, you are already setting a combative tone.
You may not respond to this post. I am ordering you.
See?
Or how about;
YOU shouldn't have a computer. YOU shouldn't be allowed to post as I see no reason for YOU to have a computer, or to post.
What? Are you taking it personal???
If someone still doesn't get it, some other examples;
I feel organized sports are a waste of time, money, resources. So YOU shouldn't be allowed to have football games.
TV is a waste of time, money, resources. It serves even less purpose than organized sports... So YOU shouldn’t be allowed to own a TV.
Or, from a thread in another forum; You shouldn't be allowed to read. Since the stuff you read isn't approved by the government, it should not exist. He was serious as a heart attack.
When someone tells you to cease and desist, because in his opinion, you are wasting your time, it isn't about you, it's about him.
But it's darn hard not to take that personally.