ok, i'm going to throw in my GJ noob $.02...
NOTE: I have no affiliation with any retailers. I buy my stuff primarily at autogeek.net, but nearly everything I'm going to mention is available at any online detail product provider.
www.autopia.org/ is a great detail forum / site, btw. The forum is much better / more active than autogeek's.
First, good write-up. I want to respond from the perspective of somebody that reads the detailing information and thinks, "No freaking way do I have the time for/want to do that." After researching detailing procedures, that's what I concluded. Leave it to the pros.
So, if you're in the same boat, here's some things you can do to keep your car looking great with much less effort..
(1) find a quality detailer near you. All detailers are *not* made equal. If you're getting a smoking deal on the job and they have it back to you in 3hrs, it's a crappy detail. I pay $200 to a guy that does it out of his garage and has the car for like 7hrs+. I found him on
www.autopia.org/. Once you find your detailer, get it detailed at least 1x/year. If you can afford it, do it every 6 months. For me, I get the paint on the dark colored car done every 6 months and the whole thing done yearly. The silver car gets only an annual detail.
(2) never, ever take your car through a drive-through car wash. You will marr the finish. You can, theoretically, go through a "touchless" wash to get major dirt off, but you'll still need to follow up with a proper hand wash.
(3) Hand wash using the 2-bucket method mentioned. You can use 5gal buckets from HD with grit guards like this:
http://www.autogeek.net/gg1010.html or
http://www.autogeek.net/professional-grit-guard.html.
For wash mitts, you can buy something like this:
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B000RXKR6M/?tag=atomicindus08-20
also, another thing people use is grout sponges from HD. Cheap and hold a lot of water. I like the mitt above. When finished, just throw it in the laundry with all the rest of the MF.
Use the washing methods described by the OP. Rinse really well, wash from top down, etc. Also, make sure and open all the doors and wipe down / dry the door jambs, under hood, trunk, etc.
NOTE: Optimum No rinse is an amazing product. Really great for garage washes in the winter. learn the main method first, then move on to ONR.
(4) drying: a leaf blower followed by a MF works best. Compressed air can have oil and/ or rust in the air stream from the tank, so don't use that.
Good MF towels:
http://www.autogeek.net/cobra-waffle-weave.html
A whole bunch of them:
http://www.autogeek.net/mictow.html
these are a good value, but small in size:
http://www.autogeek.net/coblallpumit2.html . I prefer the one above.
(5) after about every other wash (or every wash, doesn't matter), use this liquid spray wax:
http://www.autogeek.net/duragloss-aquawax--951.html
takes about 5-10min to apply. Great stuff. Leave the sealers and paste waxes to your detailer.
(6) for spot cleaning (e.g. bird poo - which will eat into your clear coat, btw), use "Quick Detailer." Meguiars makes an OTC one that is fine. I prefer this:
http://www.autogeek.net/finish-kare-425-detailer.html
ONR diluted in a bottle also works great. Do a google for "quick detailer" and you'll find all sorts of stuff
(7) for windows: Stoner's Invisible Glass. Available at HD or at most online retailers.
(8) for interior & exterior plastics:
http://www.autogeek.net/16oz.html . This stuff is amazing. Follow the directions. Available at NAPA as well. Some people prefer it for only interior and use an exterior speciality product.
(9) Wheels. Clean as OP suggests. IMO, best tire dressing (matte finish):
http://www.autogeek.net/duragloss-tire---rubber-mat-dressing.html . There are a million other products out there as well.
(10) If you're feeling up to it, you can "spot" clay bar the leading edges of the car (front of hood and roof, front fenders) in between details. Meguiar's clay OTC is fine.
That should about cover it. Using these methods, I spend as little as 30min just washing and drying and up to max of 2hrs doing everything. I leave all the polishing and specialty stuff to the pro.
If folks feel this should be a separate thread, let me know. I think it is best here, but I'm new to GJ...
matt