well, to be honest, the high carbon content of cast iron makes it impossible to get a truly metallurgically sound weld. However, you can braze it very well. You can get a weld that will hold rather well with stainless, but the best way is to preheat with a torch, then tig braze it with silicon bronze rod, then postheat it. If you hear a tinking sound, your weld is breaking and you have a problem with either your preheat or post heat, depending on when you hear the sound. from the sound of things, you've already heard all this.