I did not anticipate this much reaction so early in the year.
I would like to make a few points about the Secret Santa event.
This year, there will be a requirement to be a senior member (have over 100 posts when signing up) or be a member here for over 6 months (from December 1st).
This is not done to make post whores or rack up additional posts on the board or exclude new people. It simply is the only valid way to vet members. There are great people who may only have a handful of posts so please do not feel completely excluded.
Note: Even with these rules we occasionally have some who sign up and we never hear from them again.
Or, they decide that since they did not get a gift (the member disappeared), then they feel no need to send a gift to their designated Secret Santa (this is a non reciprocal Secret Santa, meaning your secret Santa is not the one you have to buy a gift for). This particular member is still active on the board and is not welcome to participate as long as I am still coordinating this. You are a shitbird and a true christmas grinch and yes you know who you are... You never apologized and the member you were responsible to get a gift to was covered by someone else. If you reply, I will not see it because I have all your meaningless posts blocked.
All I ask is that if you do commit to this, then please follow through. If for some reason you decide to back out, let me know as soon as possible and arrangements can be made so someone isn't left out. Every year we have people who cover for the jerks who commit to the event and then disappear.
This is done with the spirit of giving in the holiday season, So I try to remember that we are doing pretty well considering the volume of members that do participate and have a great time, it is just a small few who make it difficult.
Cheers,