Well, Deafautotech, there are a few excellent posts here that I hope you picked up on. It's sooooo easy to give advice, but so difficult to really empathize with whats going on in someone else's head. So, I will share with you some of my life lessons that I hope are appropriate.
Many people badgered me over the years to do this, do that, regarding college, careers, marriage, money, etc.. To the point that it made me sad and mad. Once I told them that I was happy where I was and please quit doing that, it stopped. Communicate to them in a nice, but assertive way to back off. You will feel much better and they will respect you.
My wife (high school sweethart of 32 years) always tells me not to wish to be in someone else's shoes.....something that happens at numerous life stages, like your peers finishing college, marriage, children, etc.. My wife is SOOOOO right. In almost all cases, 5 or 10 years down the line, the people I envied were in serious trouble, one way or another.
You imply that you are satisfied with your career. Let me tell you, MANY men envy you for that and are miserable in their own careers. Don't downplay that aspect of success in your life. Off topic slightly, but a very wise man told me in my twenties "Work hard to please yourself first. If you work hard ONLY trying to please others, you will always be unhappy." Of course, this doesn't mean to live your life too self centered.
Like others have said, don't rush the babe (er, woman is more respectful) thing. It's really easy to pick out the posts here that are from bitter men and you don't want to "be in their shoes".
It sounds like you are living at home with your parents in a responsible way...good for you. In today's economy, it's becoming more common. Cherish the time with your parents. Some day you will miss it and them.
Best Regards
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Swore women were evil. Swore I'd never get serious with one again. Then one afternoon (seven years later) in the US Post Office, I met my current wife. 
