I'm still in the learning phase myself.. I ended up buying one of the Alphatig 200X (2016 model), and it's been a really really nice machine so far. I immediately put down much nicer beads than I had with the other machine that we borrowed (a beat up eastwood tig200). I'm still no pro by any means, but I think the alpha is the best machine you can get for reasonable money.
I've watched just about all of the weldintipsandtricks videos on youtube, and they are VERY helpful. I also bought a set of stubby gas lenses and a tig finger from him, both of which I like. The gas lens setup seems much better as far as gas coverage
Tungstens, I've tried the blue 2%, and the purple e3's, and I find that for me, the purples just work better. As for sharpening them, I was using a 2" belt sander, but remembered that we had a blade sharpener from HF (
http://www.harborfreight.com/120-volt-circular-saw-blade-sharpener-96687.html) and since it had a diamond grinding disc on it, we just took the guards off, and use that to sharpen. That works WAAAY better than the belt sander or a regular grinding wheel. I can get needle sharp tungstens with that if I want.
One last thing, I found that when I was starting out, I was using too much torch angle, and I was too far away with the torch. Get comfortable and a good work height, and use something to rest your arm/hand on so that you can keep a consistent distance. It's much easier to learn what you're doing wrong when you can keep one of the variables consistent. I found that using the gas lens for better gas coverage, keeping the tungsten still fairly short, and keeping the torch angle straighter + a tight arc, that I get much much better results. I try to start with the general suggestion of 1 amp per thou, and go up or down from there depending on the situation. The amps was one thing that was hard in the beginning because I had too much torch angle, so the heat was all over the place