Ok I understand now, Thank you!! And so the second question if you don't mind is the screw for the "working" valve won't sit flush like it did when I took it off so I'm getting some seepage through there, and when I raise the jack it holds but won't go back down.

if there was a shop nearby that would do it I'd go. But this thread gave me the willingness and now I just want to conquer thos darn thing
The stem during operation will always move up and down following operation of the gear. Where the problem lies, is the a lot of time when people reinstall the gear assembly, the outer portion never bottoms out and secures the washer. When this happens you need to keep raising the stem, while threading the assembly into the block to make sure it’s seated.
Also I went back and was reading the thread from start to finish again, should I not be using this kind of fluid? It's the only fluid they had at the store near me.