It is what it is. Now that the claim has been filed, his money refunded. Question is this>
Will the buyer either pay the money for the tools or send the tools back? This is a classic example of a rookie buyer. In no means is this disrespectful nor is it intended to make either party look bad. It is a simple statement from the facts that have been presented. No, we all do not have ALL THE FACTS. But, we are not naive enough to not see what has happened with what HAS BEEN PRESENTED.
I hope we can all learn from this. I personally deal with newbie buyers on a daily basis. Those both new to tools, and those who are just getting started on eBay. While some will want to throw rocks at the buyer, and some maybe at the seller, keep in mind we were all new to this process at one time or another. With that said, common sense goes along way. Some of us have it, and some of us do not have it.
I think that you, (j6684) should have shown a little bit more faith, and class for that matter, and not gotten all wound up over 15.00 worth of tools. I can tell you this from experience, you are going to have a very long wait, and I do mean a very long wait for anyone here to sell to you because of your actions. This is a public forum, and you kinda accused, (whether you agree or disagree), (red02chevy) of being dishonest, as in like maybe, (in your words), he ripped you off. I do feel that when and if, ( and if you never get the tools I personally will send you 15.00), you get the tools, maybe a public apology is in order. I and several other members have tried to explain to you how USPS works. NO, We do NOT work at USPS, however we combined, (myself over 300,000), have probably shipped over 1 million packages via USPS. Lemme state that again, 1,000,000 packages. We do not comment with hot air my friend, we speak from the heart, and with experience. And most, not ALL, are pretty respectful crowd, and are honest. I know some will laugh at that last comment, but I find it to be true from the people I have met in person, and on this forum. I guess in other words foot inserted into mouth comes to mind. I did this myself awhile back. Short story. I purchased what I thought to be snap on wrenches from CHIPMUNK, they were blue point. I left a fb in his rep section. He was not happy. I said this, Nice tools, thought they were snap on will get good use. I thought this no big deal. He thought other wise. We had a phone convo in which both were angry at the other. I let 2 weeks pass, emailed him and stated I was sorry, admitted to my mistake, and we have continued our friendship and left that behind us. So you see, it is how people perceive things that I am getting at the heart of the situation. I saw no big deal. He saw it differently. Others still saw it differently than either of us. You have to think about the other shoe on the other foot, so as you do not stuff either of them into your mouth. In other words, so you do not ruin yours or your sellers reputation over 15.00. What is that 3 big macs? I dunno I do not eat fast food, but I gotta think it close.
(red02chevy) I hope that you learn from this as well. I can relate to both sides. Yours especially because I sell to make a living. You just gotta see that this is a new person, and acted like such, and move on. About the only thing you could do better, is post your tele, and the time you are available to talk on it. I wish you well.
I also wish you well (j6684). You can take what all has said and let it sink in. Do not get mad at any giving advice. It is free, and we all are assholes because we all have an opinion. Best of luck to all.