Strouty, I have been following along on your journey because there are some similarities to my situation. I think you are doing well and making good progress.
Some days I am overwhelmed with the hole I dug myself into with all of my projects and it seemed to happen overnight, but I know it was a long time building up. I was doing ok and actually progressing on my projects until app 4 yrs ago when I met my wife and it started going downhill after that. Not purely because of spending alot of time with her, I also lost my well paying job 6 months after we got married and we decided to start a business.
Doing that changed everything, we bought a building that needed remodeling, bought literally 25 tons of machinery, moved it all in and set it up from scratch, moved all my toys out of my old rented shop, and on and on. I got rid of app half my cars, trucks, bikes, but I still have too many and I am feeling like I don't know what to do. I don't want to get rid of the ones left, I want to finish them, have fun with them, etc. But at this point I am unsure of when that will happen. I will figure that out in time.
What I have done that has helped is that I have somehow changed my attitude towards CL and other places I would always go to see what I could find to add to the collection. I still check them out regularly, but I have lost the desire to follow through and go get it. I have picked up a couple things that I needed for a specific job, but I haven't brought home anything else in awhile and it has been nice.
I think that you would do well to slow down on the looking, don't quit cold turkey, because that won't work out well, but don't look or drive by every day or once a week etc just to see what is new.
Yes, there will be 'deals' missed, but if you don't have a system in place so that you can handle the new item you found to flip, it is making life hard on you it would be better to pass on it until you get your place setup. Then pick these things up to resell when you can bring it in and process it properly and in a timely manner.
If you can handle the stuff easily and quickly, that is a big part of making the transaction a good deal. If it just makes more work for you and you have to move the thing multiple times, loose it in among all the other stuff, find it again and then pitch it out, it wasn't truly a good deal.
I guess I ramble too much,
Keep it up, you will get there. Especially with these guys poking and prodding.
Jason