I didn't have time to read the whole thread; I got this out of what I did read; house is old, needs demolished, your looking for info on route to take.
Don't bother trying to burn; one its way way more work than youd imagine, and two, SOME, states construction and demo landfills will not take burnt material for fear of causing a sub surface fire underground. Also some states consider burnt materials to be "solid waste" and will have to be disposed of at a by the ton county waste landfill as opposed to by the yard, which will get very expensive if the material is heavy laden. So, CALL your local CD Landfills to get the scoop on what's they take.
My tip, if you haven't figured out already; find a local company that deals with 30Yard dumpsters. These will range rental from 450 to 600 dollars a box. Figure MOST residential homes will need 4 to 7 dumpsters. Far as equipment goes; the only thing you need is a trackhoe with a toothed bucket and a HYDRAULIC thumb. So rent as big of one as you can afford. Knock the house into the basement(if it has one) and spend a lot of time crunching and busting up the material as small as possible. Use the basement as your dig out spot so u don't have to chase material around the site.
All the house can be disposed of in the dumpsters but you can't load a dumpster full of dirt and concrete when you get to the basement because his material is far to heavy for even the biggest of Roll off trucks. IMO you'd be best served finding a spot on your property to put the concrete or bury it back into the basement and cover and fill with top soil . Good luck.