F451
Well-known member
Forgive me if I'm overstepping boundaries here, but it sounds like you need to focus on taking care of yourself first, and let everything else go.
If you're not well and feeling positive, or at least not completely overwhelmed, you will not be able to take care of anything effectively.
I've been trying to get my grown daughter to learn this lesson. She is drowning herself in distractions, is constantly stressed out, spinning her wheels on things that she is convinced are important and urgent, but looking at her world from outside, it looks like she is constantly, and repeatedly self sabotaging herself. She has all kinds of hobbies and pets that she gets into very deeply, but often can't take care of her basic daily needs, can't see the forest for the trees.
She is always helping out her friends who seem to be constantly in dire need, but does not take care of herself.
The worst part is it makes her miserable, and the spill over makes us (her parents) miserable.
There is always some emergency that MUST be attended to.
You seem like a great guy, very hard worker, love your family, etc. I hope your day goes better and that you find some peace in all of this.
If you're not well and feeling positive, or at least not completely overwhelmed, you will not be able to take care of anything effectively.
I've been trying to get my grown daughter to learn this lesson. She is drowning herself in distractions, is constantly stressed out, spinning her wheels on things that she is convinced are important and urgent, but looking at her world from outside, it looks like she is constantly, and repeatedly self sabotaging herself. She has all kinds of hobbies and pets that she gets into very deeply, but often can't take care of her basic daily needs, can't see the forest for the trees.
She is always helping out her friends who seem to be constantly in dire need, but does not take care of herself.
The worst part is it makes her miserable, and the spill over makes us (her parents) miserable.
There is always some emergency that MUST be attended to.
You seem like a great guy, very hard worker, love your family, etc. I hope your day goes better and that you find some peace in all of this.
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