Got a 98 1 ton. Went through the same thing. Use synthetic 75 w 90 in the diffs. atf in the xfer case if it's a floor shift. Auto push button = fancy gm only oil. Same as above. Check owners manual cuz some diffs need "friction modifiers" additive. Usually only if it's a limited slip/ posi trac. Open diffs are plain, synthetic 75 90.
