Mechanical parts fitting and a couple of oops:
So the mechanical parts in theory should be a matter of replacing the handles with these parts. That is if you're not me lol, for me it's not a project without some oddball issue cropping up or me messing things up. In this case it was both.
OOPS #1, looks like the hand me down mill was previously 'modified' in that the Y-axis shaft collar doesn't have 3 jaws like the X-axis...so Paul's collar can't mate with the jaws of the leadscrew collar.
The way the Y axis should've been (this is my x-axis):
My Y-axis leadscrew collar:
I decided to drill and tap Paul's collar and use set screws, similar to the hand-wheel that was on it. My table-top Craftsman drill-press has too much run-out for precise holes so I moved its small X/Y vise to the mill, since I'd removed the mill's handles and didn't feel like putting them on.
Done, two set-screws in place, the other is opposite to the one in the pic.
OOPS #2, (self inflicted of course) when you order the kit from Paul you have to measure a few things to get the correct kit. This is due to the fact there have been man RF30 clones sold over the past few decades and there are slight variations of the shaft size etc. Well when I measured my Z axis shaft I thought it was a 1/2" dia. but it was more like 13mm so when I put it on it was *very* snug, while not realizing the issue I gave it a few taps with a soft hammer to get it about half way onto the shaft. Then when I went to remove it by tapping it back out it wouldn't even budge

Well it doesn't know who its dealing with so I break out my slide hammer

a few gentle taps and I see it moving...wait, its not the collar moving but the whole shaft is coming out of the housing

I quickly tapped it back in hoping I didn't mess up anything inside (I didn't even know what the inside looks like as I've never messed with any internals of a mill, ever.). After some head scratching and cursing I decided to take the housing apart. Luckily nothing was visibly damaged
I clamped it in a vise, then used a vise-grip as a stop for the shaft sliding out of its housing but this collar was not coming off! I ran through a couple of options in my head, slice the collar to get it off and reorder it from Paul and thought this might be my last resort. Then I thought, it's aluminum on steel, I should be able to heat it up with my propane torch and that should help. Boy, did that help, let me tell you just 1min of heat and the thing slid right off! Then I put everything back together the way it was before. At least I put some synthetic grease on the gears.
Finally, I chucked up the collar on my 9x20 lathe and faced off the end and bored out the hole a few thous for a good fit.
Lesson learned: a bigger hammer is not always the best solution