Well, I pulled the neutral this morning, as expected I had no continuity to ground.
Put in a cutoff chunk of wire, torqued down and still had isolation.
Still not clear what caused the bond I saw last week, but obviously it was in the old meter setup. Everything is correct in the house!
Buttoned up a few things inside the house sub and cut the old meter pan and SE off, in 2 weeks fiber internet gets installed and I'll be able to take down the old mast (Comcast tied to it). I transferred the generator interlock over the the new main and mounted the cover, all that's left there is to pull a couple feet of wire through and mount the inlet.
Thanks to all that have helped!